I have been on this site for about 2 years. I have made a few post and have got alot of good responses from dating tips and do"s and don'ts. But alot of times people are to judgemental and jump to conclusions so quickly.

You know .. some people are not authors or proof readers. Don't be so judgemental and draw your own conclusions on a few words with the lack of puntuation. It is not wise decisions to make. people say stupid things alot and are taken out of context by the other people.

What are we doing here if we are going to be so judgemental on a person. Do we think we have lived long enough to be able to judge a person by a few words??? cmon ... please. No one can do that . Anyone who thinks they can judge a person from a few words is shallow, delusional and deserves to be alone for a very long time.

I have never came on here with a attitude on purpose.I am a hilarous person with a great attitude For the most part I have only got a bad attitude when people draw their own conclusions about a few words. Then decide to start bashing me.

Why don't people ask a question before going off the deep end? Don't be so judgemental on a few wrong words and puntuations.

P.S : don't forget to "MINGLE" not bash the person who just wanted to chat. Give a little room for error

I can agree on some of what you said, but also it's on how you persent yourself in your post is how people will respond to certain things. That goes with anyone on any site.

I understand that ... maybe should just have smiley faces on all my posts...lol

If you don't want people to judge you, perhaps you should stop judging others? It works both ways.

The one thing I do agree the most on, people tend to jump to their own conclusions and rearly ask questions. That is where a lot drama does start on post.


The simple thing is to ask if you're not sure on something. It really is not a hard thing to do.

Again " You are a ?*&? stir . I never juudged . YOU!!! just took it out of context!!!!

Also adding fuel to the fire doesn't help any either...

Ah, ok. That must be it.

I think you are really here to chat.But you can not do that very well when you end your post. (Anyone who thinks they can judge a person from a few words is,Shallow,Delusional,And Deserves To Be Alone For A Very Long Time.)
I would try leaving that sort of stuff out of your posts.It's like you are trying to chat but are ready to fight at any time anybody says something you don't like.
Ignore them,and chat with the ones that are willing to chat without judging you!The only actions you need to worry about are yours.
J.M.O.

so many peopleiods, so many perspectives.....
why the hell anyone would take anything terribly personal on here is way beyond me. I've been slammed, bashed, made fun of..who gives a rats azz, F* cK em...be who ya are and if someone doesn't like ..oh f &*king well...to hell with others and their opinions of ya, that's all they are..are opinions and ya know what they say about opinions...their like arseholes, everyone has one.
Be free, be you...we all desreve that!