Topic: Love that died
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Mon 12/27/10 01:58 PM
How do you ressucitate an expired love. How do you ressurect your own heart. Is there an easy way to find it again. Is there a simple place to start. How come i cant find that love i used to have but lost because of imaturity. When now i need it the most in life it doesnt need me. Someone please tell me how can my heart go free.

luke411's photo
Mon 12/27/10 02:35 PM
As I told my daughter when she younger, just yell out "Next". An expired love had a life shelf in the past and should stay in the past or taken off the shelf for good. Maturity means move on and embrace love through different eyes.

Seakolony's photo
Mon 12/27/10 02:47 PM
distance makes the heart grow fonder

silly's photo
Mon 12/27/10 03:35 PM
with time,your heart will heal.He just wasn't the right man for u.

NINERSLEAFFAN's photo
Mon 12/27/10 03:58 PM
I Know that well, Deja vu.
Love is not found it's built, not even by choice it happens, ironically a year ago I would not have been posting info on love, I am that immiture person you speak of :) ( well not your mate but yes immiture).
That feeling you get the anxious, exitement,that your partner once gave I think is easiest 1st time around, but much like all will say time takes time; and time heals, eventualy it comes again just can't be lookin for it I think it needs to "happen", just my 2 cents.
Much like ya can't force a horse to drink water, ya can't force yours or someone elses heart.
You will be good again, it just doesn't come as fast as we would all like.
For your own heart , u need to feel good 1st, be happy enjoy life, as bad as life appears it is still great, Love all, hate no one, be optimistic, look at things positively, we all hate change but change can be good, :)

Okami04's photo
Tue 12/28/10 08:27 AM
Love Never Dies, We have this idea that love is supposed to last forever. But love isn't like that. It's a free-flowing energy that comes and goes when it please. Sometimes it stays for life; other times it stays for a second, a day, a month or even a year. So don't fear love when it comes simply because it makes you vulnerable. But do...n't be surprised when it leaves either. Just be glad you had the opportunity to experience it.