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How do you change something about yourself when you are use to being that way for so long? And you really want to change and know you need to because it is hurting the ones you hold close to you. Andy ideas, any advice? And suggestions?
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you have to find your motivation and stick to it...for instance i was overweight my entire life, the doctor told me i was prediabetic and that was my motivation. hope that helped
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self dicipline
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A leopard never changes its spots.
 just kiddin'
Whisper,why would you wanna change,you're just fine the way you are. And very handy with caulking and duct tape.
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Ive always been someone who if I want something bad enough I will find a way to get it. It takes complete and total motivation, training of your mind so to speak, and you have to have the want to do it.....not just for someone else. If you do something just for someone else, you end up resenting them later on.
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Grey, looks can be dideaving (sp). I am not always the happy go lucking person that I seem.
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Gypsy, thank you. I want to do it for me. Cause this person is apart of me now, and I could not imagine it any other way. I know it will make me a better person in the long run.
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I'm not what you see on here either. I don't talk about it,I just everything into a joke but....
I think that lately jsh is what keeps me going. |
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I am going to lose somebody really close to me if I do not change my ways. And that is scaring me. I can't handle another lost in my life.
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grey??? youre not really a maple leaf????
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is it the smoking whisper?
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No, it is not the smoking. It is a personality change.
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hmmmm personality is really a hard one to change unless its an attitude change....
And why would you want to change your personality for this person??? If a person doesnt love your personality completely then they are not a very good friend. 
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whisper do it for yourself.your loved ones WILL be there for support IF you ask them for it.remember you can ask this fool for help if need be.you have my im info.
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I guess it is more of an attitude adjustment that I need. And I see it I understand that there is something not right about it.
And thank you Joe. |
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put a reminder of why you want to change
in your 15 most viewed places desktop screen taped on monitor so you see it when window hides desktop hang on dash or mirror of car put in wallet so you see every time you open it for any reason i think you get the idea |
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 ((((((((((((((((Whispers,Grey,gypsy))))))))))))))))))
I can't give you advice when I'm the same way.
I think we need to learn to love our selves before we can try to change. everytime were feeling b*tchy just step back & say who am I really hurting when I bite somebodies head off.. |
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 Hiya Robin!
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how so true catch.how so true.
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(((((((((lisa)))))))
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