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Topic: answer a silly Q. ask a silly Q. - part 5
rara777's photo
Sat 12/11/10 11:06 AM
No.........I can`t swim and I don`t venture into things I can`t handle.

Have you ever built a snow fort?

rara777's photo
Mon 12/13/10 04:35 AM
Why yes.

Yes, I have rara.

Thank you so much for asking.laugh

Have you ever made out in a snow fort?:wink:

BellaV's photo
Mon 12/13/10 05:11 AM
no, but i bet that be fun!


Ever went on vacation and it ended up being a stresscation?

rara777's photo
Mon 12/13/10 08:29 AM
Yes........Florida June, 1991
The vacation from HELL, to put it mildly.

Ever went somewhere and asked yourself WTF am I doing here?


BellaV's photo
Tue 12/14/10 05:05 AM
lol yes this mini vay kay we just went on. my boyfriends mom is either bipolar or depressed. Or both! all 5 days we were on tip toes. Didnt do have of what we were supposed to do. Even when my dogs barked it got her worked up. It was nuts. And I told her i will never go on vacation again with her until she seeks help. She lost her husband in July so the holidays are really messing with her. I don't blame her. But man this was a scarey stressful vacation!I like calmness and laughter.


Have u ever been around someone like that?

rara777's photo
Tue 12/14/10 05:22 AM

lol yes this mini vay kay we just went on. my boyfriends mom is either bipolar or depressed. Or both! all 5 days we were on tip toes. Didnt do have of what we were supposed to do. Even when my dogs barked it got her worked up. It was nuts. And I told her i will never go on vacation again with her until she seeks help. She lost her husband in July so the holidays are really messing with her. I don't blame her. But man this was a scarey stressful vacation!I like calmness and laughter.


Have u ever been around someone like that?


Yes. It sounds like me 4 years ago after my wife passed away. I had the attention span of a pet rock.Depression sucks. I was so lost, plus living almost 20 miles away from my friends didn`t help. Everything changed for the better for me when my lease ran out where I was living at Brewster (out in the middle of nowhere) and moved back to Canton, where my friends were.

Does she have some good friends that could be a support group for her?

BellaV's photo
Tue 12/14/10 05:36 AM
she don't want anyone around. And she is lying alot. We are getting confused on what to do about her. We called her doctors office and told them how she is now. They wrote it down and she has a doc appt next month so they gonna try to help. We cant approach her or she goes off. she sleeps alot. Is mean to her dog. The dog was her husbands. For thanksgiving she said no one wanted to go to her house. So i called everyone and said we will have it at her house. then she told everyone she wasnt ready. Then after thanksgiving she said no one wanted to be with her. We just shake our heads. She is pushing everyone away. Yet, she dont want to be alone. She wants to move in with us, And honestly i can deal with this. I got teenage sons. I got 2 dogs. We own 2 Businesses. We are gonna look for a house with an apartment on the bottom. so she can live there. We are just lost on what to do. But ty Rara for letting me vent!:heart:

What do u recommend?

rara777's photo
Tue 12/14/10 05:45 AM

she don't want anyone around. And she is lying alot. We are getting confused on what to do about her. We called her doctors office and told them how she is now. They wrote it down and she has a doc appt next month so they gonna try to help. We cant approach her or she goes off. she sleeps alot. Is mean to her dog. The dog was her husbands. For thanksgiving she said no one wanted to go to her house. So i called everyone and said we will have it at her house. then she told everyone she wasnt ready. Then after thanksgiving she said no one wanted to be with her. We just shake our heads. She is pushing everyone away. Yet, she dont want to be alone. She wants to move in with us, And honestly i can deal with this. I got teenage sons. I got 2 dogs. We own 2 Businesses. We are gonna look for a house with an apartment on the bottom. so she can live there. We are just lost on what to do. But ty Rara for letting me vent!:heart:

What do u recommend?


You are so very welcome (((Bella)))....Vent anytime...I have big shouldres.

Even though it seems like she is trying to push all of you away, she needs all of your support. Sometimes the people that you lash out at are the people that care the most about you. She is really going through a very emotional time right now. The first Holidays after you lose someone very dear to you are the worst. They say that time heals all wounds. Time does help, but the memories are still there. But eventually time does make the grieving process easier. I know this sounds easier said than done.

Was this of a help to you?

BellaV's photo
Tue 12/14/10 05:47 AM
yes it was, ty!:heart:


Do you think i should let my dogs back inside the house? lol its 25 degrees outside. and my lab has his jacket on and my siberian loves it when its cold like this!bigsmile

rara777's photo
Tue 12/14/10 05:51 AM

yes it was, ty!:heart:


Do you think i should let my dogs back inside the house? lol its 25 degrees outside. and my lab has his jacket on and my siberian loves it when its cold like this!bigsmile


Yeah, I know if I wouldn`t want to be outside in this.It`s 12 degrees here.

If I had a dog, it would go outside do what it`s gotta do and be inside when it was finished doing what it had to do.

Do they run up to you when they come in from out in the cold and try to warm up?


BellaV's photo
Tue 12/14/10 06:56 AM
lol yes


Do u like ur chicken wings extra hot or mild?

Himself1's photo
Wed 12/15/10 01:14 AM
hot!

Are you ticklish?

BellaV's photo
Wed 12/15/10 07:07 AM
yes and i get very pissy when someone tries to tickle me


Have u ever mud wrestle?

rara777's photo
Wed 12/15/10 09:58 AM

yes and i get very pissy when someone tries to tickle me


Have u ever mud wrestle?


Only if I have some sexy competition. :wink: :tongue:

Wanna mud wrestle?

BellaV's photo
Wed 12/15/10 10:27 AM
lol no i might mess up my hair or yours!



Do u sing in the shower?

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Wed 12/15/10 02:15 PM
yep

Do you dance in the shower?

BellaV's photo
Wed 12/15/10 08:50 PM
NO! im a klutz as it is!


Have u ever kissed a frog?

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Wed 12/15/10 09:23 PM
I don't think so..I might have tried when I was a little girl..so m maybe yea

Ever collect rolly-pollies?

BellaV's photo
Wed 12/15/10 09:30 PM
no but i did like to play with them.


When u r on a date do u like going to a movie or a dinner or a club?

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Wed 12/15/10 09:33 PM
a date huh, what's that..lol ...if I remember right I think it was dinner



Can reindeer really fly?

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