Topic: Is it wrong to want to meet someone for a intimate affair?
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Sun 07/01/07 03:41 PM
Edited by jordan918 on Mon 07/02/07 12:09 AM
I've, always wanted to do this and I just got up the nerve to try.
I want someone that,if they got caught doing this, it would shock
everybody in their town. I only want somebody that has a lot to loose like myself, and is wanting some excitement.I'm sure you don't understand and thats o.k. I'm looking for a woman who would think this is just what they want.

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Sun 07/01/07 03:47 PM
Edited by iRon on Mon 07/02/07 12:15 AM
Good luck with that and you might want to go to counseling before you choose to loose your life as you know it.


Welome and again good with that

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Sun 07/01/07 03:53 PM
Edited by Puffins1958 on Mon 07/02/07 12:21 AM
jordan...

Without trying to sound judgemental, if your not happy in your marriage....than why don't you try a seperation first before wanting to have an affair??? Wanting to meet a woman that has a lot to loose....just doesn't sound right to me.

Sorry, just my opinion....

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Sun 07/01/07 03:55 PM
Edited by JUMPTFORJOY on Mon 07/02/07 12:23 AM
you go puffins. I agree 100%. It only results in hurt feelings.

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Sun 07/01/07 04:11 PM
Edited by Native_Grl39 on Mon 07/02/07 12:39 AM
There is never any exscuse for an affair...If your marriage means that little to you that a one night stand means more than your wife...Do her a favour and let her go first rather than hurting her like that!!!!!!!!!!


flowerforyou drinker

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Sun 07/01/07 04:24 PM
Edited by red_flame on Mon 07/02/07 12:52 AM
Hello Jordan,

I am not a preacher I only wonder:

Have you have weighed the cost?

Could handle the guilt if you did?

And if the roles were reversed and your partner was seeking the same thing would you be okay with that?

-Drea

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Sun 07/01/07 04:34 PM
There is never a time, when intentially hurting someone is acceptable. Is your life in that much disrepair, that you have to take her down with you? You really need to check yourself. This is a no win situation.

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Sun 07/01/07 05:30 PM
If you want some excitment guy go f---in bungee jumping or ski diving.You are married and also have kids and you want to give that all up what happened to the vows when you got married?