Wow, didn't mean to abandon this after posting. Just busy yesterday. Ya know.

Very good input here. I agree with most. This particular person, I have posted about before so it is no big surprise he didn't think things through. I just thought it was kinda backwards how he said it was all HIM and then proceeded to say all these things he had to do for ME. Kinda contradicting imo. But whatever. His loss.

I have never personally used the line but I guess I have used similar. I usually tell people, "I am not looking to commit right now because I need to get my own life back in order before I can even think about anyone else." Which is 100% true at the time. I have things in my life right now that make it very hard to concentrate on anyone else.