Topic: Looking for a serious relationship
Hishambutt's photo
Sat 11/27/10 08:20 PM
According to me ages doesn't really matter ... As in there r no restrictions what so ever if you * really fall in love * ... a general opinion ... People might disagree with this statement .. Anyway thanx for the lovely reply.. Btw have to say .. Noticed one thing .. People on this site are a lot polite and welcoming as compared to other sites ... :)

lovingboater's photo
Tue 12/07/10 07:07 PM
You got that right...

The people here are awesome. Good people, trying to have some fun while living life and trying to find some happiness...

And Kristi (Txsgal) is right, your way young to think that the road ends shortly...

This is the best site I am on, bar none... So, come on and continue... Join in the fun... And who knows, you could meet your girl thru the forums...

One never knows what can happen...

Good luck, to all of us...

Happy Holidays, all you Mingle-ese folks...


no photo
Tue 12/07/10 07:42 PM
ITS NOT ABOUT FINDING THE PERFECT PERSON BUT LEARNING THAT TRUE LOVE IS LEARNING TO LOVE PEOPLES INPERFECTIONS AS WELL

lovingboater's photo
Thu 12/09/10 05:31 AM

This sounds like another mathematical equation...

If one does not accept another persons imperfections, then, it cannot be true love...

frustrated

A = B, B = C, D = F, H = L...

What the hell is this for...? Forgot... scared

Never mind...

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 12/09/10 05:39 AM
Honey...

Your not gonna find perfection.....haha

Unless ya carry around

Lady clariols root touch up
And
An air brush

Your young!!!!

Play the field...why do you young ones wanna settle so fast

Your full of piss and vinegar still

Go have fun!!

Worry about this crap later!!!:heart:


Chazster's photo
Thu 12/09/10 08:47 AM
your problem is your looking for "a perfect girl". She doesn't exist. They call it settling "down" for a reason. XD Have you tried that option?

mrheartfelt's photo
Thu 12/09/10 09:14 AM

hummm maybe it is not my age? laugh i wish you luck.. and dont close off any options... welcome hereflowerforyou


I am with this lady. don't close yourself off from options. Cooking for yourself is a good thing.

Margie52's photo
Thu 12/09/10 10:29 AM
LOL I'm looking for that perfect man! But, if I look for perfection, I would stay single. No one is perfect, so to say that, you must not be seriously looking.

no photo
Thu 12/09/10 11:28 AM

your problem is your looking for "a perfect girl". She doesn't exist. They call it settling "down" for a reason. XD Have you tried that option?


While I agree there is no such thing as perfect, I also don't think settling is answer either. People who settle tend not to be as happy from what I've seen.

Mirage4279's photo
Fri 12/10/10 12:30 AM
I disagree about the settling thing you just mentioned. If I feel comfortable enough to settle it would probably be a good thing and I would be very happy. Alot of times I have had signifigant others who tried to "unsettle me" so to speak. Things like provoking jealousy(especially when I was in high school. At the time I guess they kind of got the reaction they were looking for. Not so much today (more secure and far more likely to tell you to take a hike). If I found someone I liked I would be very ahppy to "settle",

no photo
Fri 12/10/10 12:55 AM

Don't look for a lady to be in your life, just live your life and she will find you.


Exactly! Patience has its rewards!!!

no photo
Fri 12/10/10 01:01 AM

ITS NOT ABOUT FINDING THE PERFECT PERSON BUT LEARNING THAT TRUE LOVE IS LEARNING TO LOVE PEOPLES INPERFECTIONS AS WELL


And hoping...

they will accept your imperfections as well

...:angel:

willing2's photo
Fri 12/10/10 05:06 AM
Well, at least you won't starve till she gets there.
Unless, you need here to bring home the bacon.:wink:

Mirage4279's photo
Fri 12/10/10 06:07 AM

hummm maybe it is not my age? laugh i wish you luck.. and dont close off any options... welcome hereflowerforyou


Anyone one with your body could not qualify as a "date from hell with granny contestant". I looked at your profile and thought hmmmmm Oregon's not that far.

no photo
Fri 12/10/10 06:20 AM

I disagree about the settling thing you just mentioned. If I feel comfortable enough to settle it would probably be a good thing and I would be very happy. Alot of times I have had signifigant others who tried to "unsettle me" so to speak. Things like provoking jealousy(especially when I was in high school. At the time I guess they kind of got the reaction they were looking for. Not so much today (more secure and far more likely to tell you to take a hike). If I found someone I liked I would be very ahppy to "settle",


When I think of settling, I think of a person I knew who wanted to be married enough that she just married someone she liked. Not someone she loved. She settled for someone who was good enough for now, but not the kind of person she was really looking for.

Ashleyverria's photo
Fri 12/10/10 06:22 AM
nice one

Mirage4279's photo
Fri 12/10/10 08:02 AM
I see what you mean. That might be true in that type of settling. If I am around a girl long enough at look at her that way (Ya know that way love ) I guess that is similar but probably not exactly the same type of settling. I think I could probably grow pretty fond enoguh of who I was kind of falling for. Just depends on how I look at it I suppose.

Chazster's photo
Fri 12/10/10 08:20 AM


I disagree about the settling thing you just mentioned. If I feel comfortable enough to settle it would probably be a good thing and I would be very happy. Alot of times I have had signifigant others who tried to "unsettle me" so to speak. Things like provoking jealousy(especially when I was in high school. At the time I guess they kind of got the reaction they were looking for. Not so much today (more secure and far more likely to tell you to take a hike). If I found someone I liked I would be very ahppy to "settle",


When I think of settling, I think of a person I knew who wanted to be married enough that she just married someone she liked. Not someone she loved. She settled for someone who was good enough for now, but not the kind of person she was really looking for.


My point was settling for someone less than perfect.

no photo
Fri 12/10/10 08:32 AM



I disagree about the settling thing you just mentioned. If I feel comfortable enough to settle it would probably be a good thing and I would be very happy. Alot of times I have had signifigant others who tried to "unsettle me" so to speak. Things like provoking jealousy(especially when I was in high school. At the time I guess they kind of got the reaction they were looking for. Not so much today (more secure and far more likely to tell you to take a hike). If I found someone I liked I would be very ahppy to "settle",


When I think of settling, I think of a person I knew who wanted to be married enough that she just married someone she liked. Not someone she loved. She settled for someone who was good enough for now, but not the kind of person she was really looking for.


My point was settling for someone less than perfect.


No one is ever going to be completely perfect.

stefy's photo
Fri 12/10/10 09:05 AM

No one is ever going to be completely perfect.

thank god because perfection is boring and predictable.