Thought I try to get things started this way....looking to hopefully meet some gay women and maybe make a few girlfriends. Not much of a womens community in SD. All the gay (mixed) or womens bars/clubs are downtown - sucks for meeting people.

Come on Ladies know ur out there....anyway have to go to work. Check back tomorrow. Have a great night!

Good Morning Ladies! Hope everyone slept well. I just got home from work...nice 50 mile drive w/ the sun in my eyes. It's going to be a beautiful in the east (east) county.

In a poker touney right now waiting for a few replies...took a nap earlier overslept a bit. Let's see who wants to chat this evening.

Lost tourney...not concentrating...sucks. Well Good night!

Answer this: What is wrong in San Diego that so many women have to use dating sites to find each other? (Guilty but I live out in the boonies)

Guess noone is into posting..."HAPPY TURKEY DAY"

Ok, well one down. Miss SF the holidays weren't so bad, worked most so others could spend the day with their family's, loved all the people I worked with so it was like being with family anyway. And if I really needed too I could always go to my sisters in San Rafael. Not as easy down here. Too many "clicks" at this job to have a family environment, people are either stand offish or just out right rude and impolite. It's going to be a long month!

I'm guessing as I work in a local casino that I've probably seen atleast 25% of you already and you have seen me...care to play find and seek?

Well might as well be talking to myself....let me know if I start answering as well. Anyway works as fun as ever...the search here goes on and on and on...LOL

Nudged a couple of you, don't know how that works exactly...but no response so whatever, I guess.

Well so far this site has not met my expectations. Seems like a waste of $$. Not posting a pic, work in too public an environment, so as a posted earlier if you are even curious find me.

ok mental distraction while I play this tournament:

there's this beautiful young woman at work, characteristics, dress and look fit my "librarian fantasy". Too bad she's straight and moving out of SD next week. Would differently be worth a bi-curious relationship.

Welcome. Join in the main forums. Not as many hang out in the local forums.

have fun and let people get to know you

other then chatting that doesn't get me any closer to meeting local people.

>>>>>>>>>>>i was childish enough to speak my mind on here the other day. so with all dorespect i will also be man enough to make a public apolligy>>>>>>> i am very sorry for wat i said on hear the other day. i was being a complete jerk, something that i have gotton gud at lately............


>>>>>>>>>>>> like most men, im not one to say im wrong.. i have to be right about every thing, but unlike most men, i will say im sorry when i know im wrong, and ONLY if im proven wrong.. i had no right posting wat i did on the fourm the other day. i was a little crossed eyed at that moment. 43 straight hours of no sleep..! i let my lack of better judgement speak to soon. im very glad u did the right thing and rather than shoot some comeback at mee or i would never have realilized how wrong and stupid i was being. and yes i know it`s jerks like me that has caused u most of bad feelings you have had in in life. i may be a complete jerk, but i will not knowingly cause some one problems for know gud reason with out takeing full credit for my actions: gud or bad. i read all of ur profile today. very well wrote. some pic`s would probly make a women reading ur page a little more comfterble.. and u may want to change ur mail settings.. she has to be with in 150 miles of u to messege u. alot of people will not post on fourms.. so give it some thought.. u never know how far a person may drive to meat there new love.one time a fews years back i hitched hicked over 640 miles one way just to go on a first date with a girl. she never knew i had to hitch hick. i was too ashamed to tell her..lol and then had to hitch hick back. ur just in the wrong state.. i know how sd is. i lived in sioux falls, sd for over 2 years. the (straight and bi) girls there love us southern country boys.. :) but here in louisana finding a gay or just a bi lover is "easy". every one here is VERY open and proud of who they are (men and wemen).. in stonewall and shreveport area, is one of the few places in witch a women can realy be completely in charge of her life and who she wants to be. the men here, even do wat there told by there wemen..yes the women wairs the pants in this state..lol luckly im not from here. and i will not date a girl here. so the above said dont apply to me..lol.. a very close friend and mentor, and who is also gay, saw wat i wrote the other day.. im still catching hell over it.. and let me tell u, she is MEAN..!!! but anyways enough said. i wish u luck Crestcat. it`s a shame to see a loveing heart go to wast...peace...

too bad I can't get a refund...total waster of money.

They have plenty of gay and mixed bars in the Hillcrest area of San Diego. That is where you will find most of them. I am not gay, but I do keep my eyes and ears open in case something like this comes up and need a answer. You MUST be Patient!!!!! Nothing happens ery quick in this city!!!!!

I'm sorry I've lived here for 6 years...this city sucks' - but i'm stuck

,,well lets trade places. u can have all the girls here in louisana. i just want one or two of them cali girls.. :)
,, the mixed clubs here in shreveport r realy kool for the most part. drinks r over priced. but no one is stuck up. lots of men and wemmen (gay and straight). ever one has lots of fun, no mater there age or sex. i`ve never been to san diego,i`ve only lived in simmi vally; but i always thought san diego would be lots of funn..

any ways: i agree with mrheartfelt.

MUST be Patient.
MUST be Patient.
MUST be Patient.