Topic: should i or should i not?
sparky6417's photo
Mon 11/22/10 04:11 PM
my x had 3 beautiful kids i loved them very much they called me dad they are 6,7,9 i wanna c them but i sometimes think its best 2 let them grow and move on?????

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Mon 11/22/10 04:23 PM

my x had 3 beautiful kids i loved them very much they called me dad they are 6,7,9 i wanna c them but i sometimes think its best 2 let them grow and move on?????

THat would probably be best. Am sure they're confused enough.

sparky6417's photo
Mon 11/22/10 04:30 PM


my x had 3 beautiful kids i loved them very much they called me dad they are 6,7,9 i wanna c them but i sometimes think its best 2 let them grow and move on?????

THat would probably be best. Am sure they're confused enough.
ya thats kinda what im thinkin

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Mon 11/22/10 05:10 PM

my x had 3 beautiful kids i loved them very much they called me dad they are 6,7,9 i wanna c them but i sometimes think its best 2 let them grow and move on?????
I think that would depend upon how long you have been in their lives. If you have been a father figure for quite awhile, you should continue to see them if possible...don't make them feel like they are the reason you are gone.

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Mon 11/22/10 06:13 PM


my x had 3 beautiful kids i loved them very much they called me dad they are 6,7,9 i wanna c them but i sometimes think its best 2 let them grow and move on?????
I think that would depend upon how long you have been in their lives. If you have been a father figure for quite awhile, you should continue to see them if possible...don't make them feel like they are the reason you are gone.
we wer together 3and a half yrs but she did not have custody i wanted her 2 work on it i bought her a home and took them in on the weekends but the kids r with there grandma who is a wonderful lady

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Mon 11/22/10 06:14 PM


my x had 3 beautiful kids i loved them very much they called me dad they are 6,7,9 i wanna c them but i sometimes think its best 2 let them grow and move on?????
I think that would depend upon how long you have been in their lives. If you have been a father figure for quite awhile, you should continue to see them if possible...don't make them feel like they are the reason you are gone.
we wer together 3and a half yrs but she did not have custody i wanted her 2 work on it i bought her a home and took them in on the weekends but the kids r with there grandma who is a wonderful lady

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Mon 11/22/10 08:19 PM
oy vey

the things we adults lay at the feet of children

to each his own...........but...........

thats why i never bought a man into the kids lives.....


i never knew how long hed be around...the divorce was enough to have them go through....

when i was involved with a man....

no matter how lomg....

it was kept away from them...but thats how i roll:heart: