Topic: letting someone know
buttons's photo
Sun 11/21/10 06:03 PM
well not sure if this belongs here for starters.. since im not in a relationship... im wondering this if you were and there was someone flirting and texting the one you were with.. and had a fiancee at the time would you let them know? im sorry but i strongly believe in relationships and take them seriously.. <not that others do> would you let that person know in the other relationship? or hint at it to them ? i know this i would appreciate the gesture and dig myself into what i wanted to!

Suzanne20's photo
Sun 11/21/10 06:07 PM
I am glad you asked this...I was considering asking it myself. I know of someone in the same situation. (((Deb)))

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 11/21/10 06:11 PM
i thought about it too, but then I am not a very close friend of this person and so I figure perhaps on of their better friends will.

buttons's photo
Sun 11/21/10 06:22 PM
well piss on this! i went out with this guy for 2 months.. i put up with the bs.. i finally read it.. why should not he? with his gf? she whines bout it... yet she does it? and seriously.. they deserve each other! losers! the bf should be aware is all i gotta say!.... pne note and done he can figure out after that! piss on these cheaters! im sorry!

buttons's photo
Sun 11/21/10 06:22 PM
well piss on this! i went out with this guy for 2 months.. i put up with the bs.. i finally read it.. why should not he? with his gf? she whines bout it... yet she does it? and seriously.. they deserve each other! losers! the bf should be aware is all i gotta say!.... pne note and done he can figure out after that! piss on these cheaters! im sorry!

buttons's photo
Sun 11/21/10 06:25 PM
manipulative sociopaths both of them! damn i need to send him the link lol! i wonder how they would do with each other? lmao! i should ask the sociopaths? would be so interesting! think i will! ha ha luv ya joe!

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Sun 11/21/10 06:40 PM
Heartbeats,in sync with the clock
In time with my steps
Buried in my chest
Disguised by a layer of flesh,that's fading away
From the constant gaze of your intruding ways

I'll try to hide
And I will go
Far away from here
And I will run
As far as I have to

Sinking,deep beneath the surface
Trying to realise my purpose
Have you brought me here to show me off?
Inside I feel like I am drowning
and everyone around me floating on
Their constant controlled thoughts
I wont go around,I'll try to find it

I'll try to hide
And I will go
Far away from here
And I will run
As far as I have to
whoa ohwell drinker

kc0003's photo
Sun 11/21/10 06:59 PM
i've always found it best to stay out of other peoples relationships. sooner or later it will come out and the pieces will fall where they belong.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 11/21/10 07:16 PM
I've told people stuff. I've also stayed out of crap too. Thing is, when you do tell, you always feel it is the right thing to do. But, when you do it, you always feel like a bad person for being the bearer of the bad news. And if you don't tell? Sometimes you can feel that you are a bad person for not telling. In a way, you are damned if you do. Damned if you don't.

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 11/21/10 10:53 PM

Heartbeats,in sync with the clock
In time with my steps
Buried in my chest
Disguised by a layer of flesh,that's fading away
From the constant gaze of your intruding ways

I'll try to hide
And I will go
Far away from here
And I will run
As far as I have to

Sinking,deep beneath the surface
Trying to realise my purpose
Have you brought me here to show me off?
Inside I feel like I am drowning
and everyone around me floating on
Their constant controlled thoughts
I wont go around,I'll try to find it

I'll try to hide
And I will go
Far away from here
And I will run
As far as I have to
whoa ohwell drinker




awwww :cry:

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Mon 11/22/10 12:37 PM
maybe the motivation behind the act is what one should look at. if the motivation is based on a bad emotion or ill will, then the reason behind the revelation is bad. yet if the motivation is based on a in the best interest kinda thing, then the revelation should have a happy ending. sometimes being a johnny whistleblower makes the outer a hero. most times he is shunned

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Mon 11/22/10 01:34 PM
Hell all I did was cheat on my doll!! (BUT she was in the closet and was deflated!!)noway bigsmile pitchfork

no photo
Mon 11/22/10 01:41 PM
Edited by Haley1243 on Mon 11/22/10 01:42 PM

Hell all I did was cheat on my doll!! (BUT she was in the closet and was deflated!!)noway bigsmile pitchfork



frustrated (((( Mikey))))


OP I would stay out of it. Like you said they deserve eachother.

talldub's photo
Mon 11/22/10 03:18 PM

well not sure if this belongs here for starters.. since im not in a relationship... im wondering this if you were and there was someone flirting and texting the one you were with.. and had a fiancee at the time would you let them know? im sorry but i strongly believe in relationships and take them seriously.. <not that others do> would you let that person know in the other relationship? or hint at it to them ? i know this i would appreciate the gesture and dig myself into what i wanted to!

Be true to thine own self - if you were the other person, would you want to know?