Topic: no myka, you’re NOT alone (rant!) | |
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I posted that picture as a joke because I printed that out and posted it on my daughter's wall when she went through that phase of making faces....it isn't directed at anyone in particular and it sure as hell doesn't need to get anyone all upset. I probably would have done the same thing to my daughter lol. My question is that do you feel that your daughter would deserve to be called a slut and a whore and a expert dick sucker just because she posted a picture up on the web like that? Thats why I got upset, Its not just people saying "oh look hahaha" Like I do when I see all the "emo kids" with the EXACT SAME haircut. People are attaching MAJOR hostility and sexual harassment to these insults and the people receiving this are more often than not, young impressionable teens than have been known to kill themselves over the internet harassment. Adults used to have a responsibility to be mature and set an example for the younger people to role model after, yet now it seems the adults are acting like the kids instead... I don't sugar-coat things to my daughter, I told her that there are going to be people looking at her pics and saying things about them. What matters is how SHE reacts to what they say. She has learned to let things roll off her back and not bother her, but it also made her get past making those faces pretty quickly. Adults have been saying things to teenagers for a very long time. Just going back to the 60's, they called The Beatles "girlie" for having hair that reached their collars. They later called hippies names for letting their hair grow to their waists. They called anyone from the 80's who wore their hair "Flock of Seagulls" style, strange and anyone who followed punk rock, got called "morons". Parents have the responsibility to their child to help them deal with things that happen in their young lives. Some of these teens who have committed suicide may not have had a parent who helped them by sitting them down and showed them support too, just put them down also (and not have realized it) |
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