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Topic: Home Wreckers Award
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Sun 11/07/10 11:17 PM
i don't share.

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 11/08/10 01:29 AM

I don't mean to ignite a race war here at all, but just to initiate intense discussion.
One of my Professors believe that Black girls are better home wreckers than White girls. She is a black woman. She thought Latina women are subservient or more submissive. But again she warned me: Hey Sam, before you gallop down the alley to that White girl's door, be sure you already bought you a burial spot at the nearest cemetry because ever since O.J., they've decided to kill you first and weep at your grave later. OMG!
And I was like, Prof., so who do I hook up with after this scare session. She goes: go with the moment. Now I'm in a dilemma-it's called Sam's limbo.
What do you all think?


And this is why our education system is absolute ****...

LoveAlina's photo
Mon 11/08/10 02:40 AM

she is a fool to open her mouth


Not quite Oceanbluze, this is a great discussion, a fool is a person who lacks judgment and sense, and I am neither nor by participating am I projecting that image.

We are here to discuss all topics of interest, no given answer is foolish and to be quite honest, it is through knowledge that we are given power to understand reason and logic.

Alinaflowerforyou

LoveAlina's photo
Mon 11/08/10 02:43 AM


Cultural norms has influence on our behaviors and attitudes, however idiosyncrasies can be used to create biases and breed ignorance without having a complete understanding of a given culture. I am Latina (Brazilian and Hispanic)and women in our culture are known to be subservient or more submissive, but what does this mean?

"Hmmm....are you sure that racial context plays no role in a person's behavior? I am black, but I think it does - there are idiosyncrasies critically peculiar to every given culture - something they are noted for.......you disagree"

There are other factors other than "racial context" that play a role in negative behaviors within all cultures among all people.

Alinaflowerforyou


....yes Alina, and what are some of those factors you identify?


We all should have some idea of what those factors are especially you, the author of the topic.

venusenvy's photo
Mon 11/08/10 06:54 AM
Good God!!! slaphead

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Mon 11/08/10 06:57 AM
surprised

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 11/08/10 07:05 AM

I don't mean to ignite a race war here at all, but just to initiate intense discussion.
One of my Professors believe that Black girls are better home wreckers than White girls. She is a black woman. She thought Latina women are subservient or more submissive. But again she warned me: Hey Sam, before you gallop down the alley to that White girl's door, be sure you already bought you a burial spot at the nearest cemetry because ever since O.J., they've decided to kill you first and weep at your grave later. OMG!
And I was like, Prof., so who do I hook up with after this scare session. She goes: go with the moment. Now I'm in a dilemma-it's called Sam's limbo.
What do you all think?


Sorry but your professor shouldn't be teaching. Generalizations and stereotypes are a dangerous thing.

That is like saying all Asian women are submissive. My aunt is full blooded Korean and I guarantee she isn't submissive. I used to live in the Philippines and they aren't all submissive.

As said before, culture, family, peers, etc have a big influence on things. So does a person's mind and heart.

Sorry but anyone closed minded enough to teach stereotypes and generalizations shouldn't be teaching. She needs to think outside the box.

JMO

RKISIT's photo
Mon 11/08/10 07:28 AM
she may have a degree and is entitled to give her thesis on "home wreckers" but doesn't mean it's fact,people may date within a certain race and draw conclusion about that race,also generalizing certain races there maybe a majority of it thats true but the fact is home wreckers come in all walks of life

bastet126's photo
Mon 11/08/10 07:47 AM
categories and labels
are always open to interpretation
but i find them
boring and assumptuous
why can't we all just
be.

MyLastGroom's photo
Mon 11/08/10 08:01 AM


she is a fool to open her mouth


Not quite Oceanbluze, this is a great discussion, a fool is a person who lacks judgment and sense, and I am neither nor by participating am I projecting that image.

We are here to discuss all topics of interest, no given answer is foolish and to be quite honest, it is through knowledge that we are given power to understand reason and logic.

Alinaflowerforyou


Alina, I don't think Oceanbuze was referring to you in her comment. I thought so too when I saw it, but after noticing that it was her first comment on the issue, I realized she was referring to the professor.
Your views are articulate and focused and I don't see anything you've said so far that would warrant any negative accolade. Please share away!!!

MyLastGroom's photo
Mon 11/08/10 08:03 AM

she may have a degree and is entitled to give her thesis on "home wreckers" but doesn't mean it's fact,people may date within a certain race and draw conclusion about that race,also generalizing certain races there maybe a majority of it thats true but the fact is home wreckers come in all walks of life


very persuasive argument. I agree

MyLastGroom's photo
Mon 11/08/10 08:04 AM


I don't mean to ignite a race war here at all, but just to initiate intense discussion.
One of my Professors believe that Black girls are better home wreckers than White girls. She is a black woman. She thought Latina women are subservient or more submissive. But again she warned me: Hey Sam, before you gallop down the alley to that White girl's door, be sure you already bought you a burial spot at the nearest cemetry because ever since O.J., they've decided to kill you first and weep at your grave later. OMG!
And I was like, Prof., so who do I hook up with after this scare session. She goes: go with the moment. Now I'm in a dilemma-it's called Sam's limbo.
What do you all think?


Sorry but your professor shouldn't be teaching. Generalizations and stereotypes are a dangerous thing.

That is like saying all Asian women are submissive. My aunt is full blooded Korean and I guarantee she isn't submissive. I used to live in the Philippines and they aren't all submissive.

As said before, culture, family, peers, etc have a big influence on things. So does a person's mind and heart.

Sorry but anyone closed minded enough to teach stereotypes and generalizations shouldn't be teaching. She needs to think outside the box.

JMO

Your argument is compelling and I agree totally.

MyLastGroom's photo
Mon 11/08/10 08:07 AM

categories and labels
are always open to interpretation
but i find them
boring and assumptuous
why can't we all just
be.


Thanks for the insight. Unfortunately, as long as we are stuck in this planet of diverse humanity, these issues will always be discussed - I think!

LoveAlina's photo
Mon 11/08/10 12:51 PM



she is a fool to open her mouth


Not quite Oceanbluze, this is a great discussion, a fool is a person who lacks judgment and sense, and I am neither nor by participating am I projecting that image.

We are here to discuss all topics of interest, no given answer is foolish and to be quite honest, it is through knowledge that we are given power to understand reason and logic.

Alinaflowerforyou


Alina, I don't think Oceanbuze was referring to you in her comment. I thought so too when I saw it, but after noticing that it was her first comment on the issue, I realized she was referring to the professor.
Your views are articulate and focused and I don't see anything you've said so far that would warrant any negative accolade. Please share away!!!

Oh okay I wasn't sure, then I apologize, I wasn't being rude, but I also didn't want to be viewed as that type of person. Thanks.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 11/08/10 06:10 PM
No person can be a home wrecker without help from someone in the home.


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