yes- of course

I have been seeing Wayne now for a few weeks...
He is very nice and we get along great...as far as I can tell. We have not discussed sex at all...and although I can appreciate that, I'm just curious as to what he is thinking. He is unlike any other man I have EVER dated. He has ONLY gone out with two women before me. He married his high school sweetheart, he is a widower 5 years now and only one other woman besides me. He is a complete gentleman and has never brought up the subject. Do you think I should be concerned right about now??

Let me know please...this feels soooo strange to me

the truth..no
not after a few weeks...i mean does he kiss you and touch etc...appear that he is attracted to you?
before i got married dating seemed to move slow and the
guy never said anything in that direction for awhile.
maybe he is scared or just old fashioned.
if you are ready..move in that direction and see if he is ready also.

The problem is...I am so used to being asked for sex on the VERY first meeting. The men that I have been meeting are DOGS, Wayne is a gentleman, I like that about him. He wants to take it slow...something else I can appreciate. He is old fashioned, at least I think he is. Yes he does kiss me, but not when we first meet one another.

Like if were going out to dinner, I would kiss him hello in the parking lot before going into the restaurant, he does not do that. Yes he does kiss me, and he is a good kisser, I am just curious about the rest of it. I wish I felt confident enough to ask him...what he is thinking, but I am not.

I wish I could read his mind when he is kissing me, this way I would know already. Do you know what I mean??

yes-
but you should feel it in his kiss.
you can not hide passion.
are you wondering will he be good in bed??
because of his limited experience?
because we know he wants something with you..he has
asked you for dates.

of course...I'm wondering if he will be good in bed. Wayne is 6'7" tall...beautiful blue eyes....almost makes me MELT. I am not worried about him being with 2 women, to me that's nice. He is faithful if anything, I think it's sweet. I have not been with that many more....but at least I know (or at least I think I do) where I want the relationship to go. With him, I have NO clue....

never know til you get to that stage

so I should just be patient and wait for him to say something to me...

I don't want to scare him off...know what I mean??

yes- but use your body language to hint about moving in that direction...if you are ready!

joyce...

We are going out for my birthday tonight...I'll let you know how it goes. Thank you honey for all your good advice....

well i hope you have a great time Joyce and Puffins, you ladies are soooo soooo fantastic, you deserve to be treated with the utmost respect, honor and class.
*hugs to you both*