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i totally concur with this young lady up here ^^  'scuze me!!!! I am all man!!  Yeah, I know you was talkin' bout venvy.
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would u want yur partner to tell u how many people they have slept with? or is it any of yur buisness really? What's past is past, and I can't change it now anyway. If they ask, I'll tell them. I'm not proud of it, but it's a reality. I wouldn't ask anyone else, but if they feel the need to divulge, I'm OK with that. |
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Naw...why open that can of worms what possible positive outcome could come from that?  If you opened your can, how many worms would you find?   Not many lovey, Im an upbeat person and I practise gratefulness every day of my life...I just dont get why some peeps want to take on complications...live in the now I say. What the heck does someones past lovers matter beyond the fact it brought them to you. 
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I can only attest to a few conquests.
I notched the old oak tree for every (different) victory. Unfortunately, this is all that's left of it. 
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I just want them to tell me I'm the best they have ever had.  ditto 
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Edited by
RoamingOrator
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Fri 10/22/10 08:43 AM
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To be honest, when I saw "leftovers," I was kind of hoping we were talking about what was in the fridge.
 Remember the phrase "Is your partner good in bed? Ever wonder how they got that way?"  I'd wouldn't care how many guys she's been with, I'm just afraid if she asks me and I tell her she's just going to go "That's all!?!"  |
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The past is the past. I don't see why you need to bring up the past. All I would want to know is if they had a disease that could harm me. If they are good in bed just means that's means practice made perfect no matter what the number is.
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none of my business past is the past now if past interferes with presnt then that is different I agree |
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The past is the past. I don't see why you need to bring up the past. All I would want to know is if they had a disease that could harm me. If they are good in bed just means that's means practice made perfect no matter what the number is.
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None of my business.
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it's it just a casual partnership, there is no reason to divulge that information, all you need to know is that you're both "clean"...now if it's more serious, then yes you should discuss your past but at that point it's up to both sides to figure out how much to tell and when...
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it's it just a casual partnership, there is no reason to divulge that information, all you need to know is that you're both "clean"...now if it's more serious, then yes you should discuss your past but at that point it's up to both sides to figure out how much to tell and when... Why should you discuss it? |
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i think it's healthy on an emotional level to let your serious partner or boyfriend/girlfriend know about your past to some extent...there is no need to go into details, but at least let the other know where you've been...b/c like it or not, sex does hold some kind of emotional power over some people...and if you want your relationship to thrive emotionally you should be open...
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i think it's healthy on an emotional level to let your serious partner or boyfriend/girlfriend know about your past to some extent...there is no need to go into details, but at least let the other know where you've been...b/c like it or not, sex does hold some kind of emotional power over some people...and if you want your relationship to thrive emotionally you should be open... I dissagree love...I think its UNHEALTHY to bring past baggage into a present relationship. It just opens the door to jealousy and insecurity amoung other things. I want a partner who is healed and whole as I am. Not hung up on the past
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i think it's healthy on an emotional level to let your serious partner or boyfriend/girlfriend know about your past to some extent...there is no need to go into details, but at least let the other know where you've been...b/c like it or not, sex does hold some kind of emotional power over some people...and if you want your relationship to thrive emotionally you should be open... I can see discussing some past relationships as the conversations come up as a way of knowing more about each other. But, I see no value in knowing the number of sex partners someone has had. |
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i'm not exactly talking about sharing numbers, i'm talking about opening up about your past...that's all...and i do agree that both sides should be emotionally healed from their past...i just think it's good to talk about it...
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Ever hear the expression "curiosity killed the cat"?
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i'm not exactly talking about sharing numbers, i'm talking about opening up about your past...that's all...and i do agree that both sides should be emotionally healed from their past...i just think it's good to talk about it... Oh, I see. And, agree. The question was about sharing numbers though, so I thought that's what you meant. |
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Ever hear the expression "curiosity killed the cat"? Good point. |
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lol yes i've heard that expression before...i don't believe that there is anything wrong with talking about your past with the person you are in a relationship with...being emotionally healed doesn't always mean pushing those memories away, whether they're bad or not, it just means you've taken those experiences and learned from them...and what you've learned helps make you who you are and if you're in a relationship, not a "partnership", you want to share who you are...
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