I have been single going on 4 years now. Tell me is it just me or am I the only one that has been single for that long?

i got divorced in april 1997, so i might have beaten your streak by a few seconds.

My divorce was in 2006.

i'm sorry sweetie, i hope you don't have to wait as long as i have been (still waiting patiently), but you are very easy on the eye and i'm sure you will be in a relationship in no time.

Lol, I am also a single mom of 3 and I can be a *****.

sometimes being single is better than being with the wrong person... i made that mistake, and now am single again..

Wow! and you're still single???

Since 2005.I remain single by choice however.I wish you the best upon your journey of finding your significant other.Godspeed!Cy

wow that's amazing a ***** is exactly what i've been praying for.

it's been a few years for me ...was in a bad place but things are lookin up and ...well i'm good B-) so best of luck to us all B-)

Thanks I thought I was the only one.


Oh and yea trust me you can ask my ex husband.... or my family. lol

We believe ya

Divorced at 18?...how old were you when you got married? How long did it last?

I stayed single almost 10 yrs before I married a second time.

I've been real life (not online) single since 2006, early 2006 so almost 5 years for me. That may be about to change though, but shall see.

I was 16 and pregnant when I got married to my ex. It lasted until he went overseas and found someone else. He found a single mom of 4 and that is 32.

There are worse things than being alone.
No Hurries=No Worries.

does she have a sister?

I have no clue.

I was separated from my ex in '95 and until 2007 I was only in two relationships, they only lasted about five months each. I figured that raising my daughters was more important than finding someone. I am extremely glad I did because I found a wonderful man who loves my girls like they are his own.

Good luck to you, baker.

you start pickin them, not them pickin you!

you have not been single for four years, YOU HAVE NOT LIKED ANY OF THE OFFERINGS FOR FOUR YEARS.

there are TWO totally different ways to look at the same scenario, and one will make self feel like a victim, and the other will EMPOWER YOU.

YOU TELL "THEM" WHAT YOU WANT.

AND THEN JUST LOOK FOR "TWO PEOPLE WANT".

MUTUAL WANT.

you get approached all the time.

you see what you like all the time.

the times you see what you want, or like, or lust for, are you speaking it.

YOU GET ONE LIFE.

YOU decide how YOU GET TO SPEND IT.

you have to be waintin for "them", or "him".

you decide what you want, and speak it, and then LET "THEM" DECIDE.

then let the cards fall where they may.

then YOU become the ACTION, instead of THE REACTION?

the only thing you need to care about, is seein what you want, and speakin it, in the way YOU WANNA SPEAK IT, and finding one that responds THE WAY "YOU" WANT HIM TO?

YOU WONT HAVE ANY PROBLEMS.

you are not single as a victim, you have not yet seen what be what you want.

but, if you realize you are the action, and you create the action of the other pool balls on the pool table, you'll have fun beein the cue ball, instead of just one of the "OTHER" balls awaitin on somebody to "hit you".

kick some ***.