ok so i just got a job that requires me to travel. is it fair to a woman if the man has to travel and they stay at home. woman what goes threw your mind when this happens?

men. if the woman travels what goes threw you mind?

Cheating? missing that person? just a job and they understand. im just wondering what yall think?

Just miss him....


the operative word....



trust

yeah trust is a major issue, and that is great to hear. even if he went out on the weekend or she and went to parties and clubs?

I had a relationship like that.....


freedom to be you and me and trust....was all it took...


It was the greatest of all relationships!!!

Send her over to my house.

I'll make sure she behaves.

sound good. yeah i have had relationships where i didnt trust the person and freaked out that night lol. but now looking back at it, i should of not even been in that relationship in the first place. if you dont have trust then there is nothing. but we live and learn; well atleast some of us do

willing2,

im sure you will lol. your name just has trust written all over it lol

but what do you think about it? what are your views

and im single by the way, someone i work with has a girlfriend and the thought just came to mind about this subject.

If they have a commitment, they both should honor it.

If they're gonna' see other people, be honest about it.

trust if you have to question it then either its you thats worried or that you don't trust the other,its balanced out"why be in a relationship then?"

never knew it was a test,then it makes you wonder why nice guys finish last?

rkisit

that brings up something else.
if woman are always saying they are looking for a nice guy, then why do they cheat with an *** hole?

i have been cheated on before, not getting into that, but i have also been an ******* before and got a girl to cheat on her nice boyfriend. when the trust was there, well atleast for me; im not to sure about the other girl and her man. whats your thoughts

You may be a big boy, son. You are still young.

Enjoy your single life. There's plenty of time to get strapped down with a wife and kids.

When you're ripe, there will come along the right gal that will see it and pick you and visa-versa.

I'd miss him if I were in a relationship with someone who travelled for work. I would trust him though, unless he ruins my trust I will trust him.

I worked in traveling sales for many years. If you don't trust your lady, and she doesn't trust you...it's best that you both be single.

Working out of town strains a relationship. That's why I'm divorced. He assumed I was cheating because I worked with men. I wasn't. So, he started cheating..and when I asked why- he said, "absence makes the heart wander."

first you stated women always,well does this mean every woman? i'm not going to get into the generalization BS cause there is truth to it but why do they cheat on "nice guys"with a$$holes"simple cause they aren't the woman you thought them out to be,seriously if they cheat on you then why put in the effort to question why,they're are obviously not what you are truly looking for,hell to cut through the chase there are women who base preference on men who are looking for relationships as a adult which you are you need to distinguish which woman is real in what you want and who isn't,just laugh at the ones who think your a sucker and think to yourself,"***** your lost",but driving yourself crazy over it is your problem and some women will cheat to be like "well to hell with him"my point don't give them any reason to and if they do,say"bye bye,*****"

It can be done, but only in a very strong relationship where both parties are totally committed to each other.

I lived in a different country to my husband for 9 months; It was miserable and we both hated it, but there was never a question of lack of trust.

I love nice guys. Unfortunately, they only pretended to be nice-then they showed what they were made of...and it wasn't much. Cheating is for people who have a low self-esteem or don't know how to express emotions.