if everyone around u is telling u not to get in a relationship with someone becuase they dnt like him but your heart says something else.. wat do u do? do u run the risk of steppin out on a limb or do u listen to yur surronding peers?

depends on who it was that was telling me not to date a woman.if it was somebody that i really knew i could trust than i wouldn't but if it's someone i knew but wasn't that close to,than piss on'em

Depends on the reasons why your friends and family don't like someone.

well i'd say listen to what your friends are saying ....see why they saying no...and listen and think about what they say.

in the end ...it's your life...your choices...

life is meant to be lived and chances are only there if you take them...

hope this helps a little

best of luck

cause he is half black

this is wat happened wit me an my ex fiancee

If they don't approve of the color of his skin, then they have the issue. Not you.

WTF? NOTHING IS PURE! NO ONE IS EITHER! We are all half something. If color was why they didn't like him you are surrounded by Red Necks! Shame on them! I bet most of the men around you poo pooing would be poking a willing black girl if they thought they wouldn't get caught!

NOW let us look deeper at this, what if they seen things about him like he is a terminal liar or he is a pretenda-gangsta or wannabe thug? If there are deeper reasons for your peers to not like him that is different. players can put up a good show but like the saying goes, "you can fool some of the people some of the time but you cannot fool all of the people all of the time." You need to ask more questions of your peers. They may know something you do not see!


Oh to be caught in the middle of such a dilemma! Not knowing which decision is the right one...

This is where you do your detective work! get facts, then make decisions!

yeh heheh...it's your life...your choices...you may love n respect alot of your friends n fam but it's a two way street (at least it should be) i mean they should also respect your decisions.

I have very little tolerance for people that judge someone solely on their race.
I refuse to surround myself with those kinds of people. Thank goodness my family is not the least bit racist, but if they were, I would not listen to their racist opinions.
HOWEVER... you did also comment something about your ex fiance... does your friends and family maybe notice some of the same traits in this guy that were in your ex fiance? People tend to date the same type of people, especially bad ones.
What caused the break up of you and your fiance? Do you notice anything similar about this new guy and your ex?

ummm it's been what, 5 or 6 days since you split with you fiance?

i think perhaps a bit more time alone would serve you best.

ooooohhhh yea I didn't know that... ouch.

depends on if your friends got your best intrest at heart , follow your heart, but stay reserved,:)

I would say follow your heart, but it's only been a few days since your last relationship ended, I'd recomend waiting a little while until you're fully healed from the break up.

ohhhh..........don't ask me !!!!



I never listen anyway...even when everyone else is dead on right!!!....



I always go into it like a bull in a china shop.......but I always learn somthing new from every experience......


I always follow my heart when it comes to men though....Its a killer....but thats me....the way I flow....and I wouldn"t give it up for anything!



So be you!!!!................

O! well thats a stupid reason...hearts and souls are all the same colour...I fall in love heart and soul

cause he is half black>>>>>>>>>WTF!!!!!



It is 2010 baby......if any of my four girls bought a 1/2....1/3.....1/4......full blooded anything into the house who the hell cares!!!!!


If they are both happy....I am happy.... love knows no color


just fattness............haha.....jk!!!

clarification: the person i am talking about here is my ex fiancee.. the one tht things just went bad with a few daya ago

Meh kick him to the curb...If your heart is torn...thats your answer. If you were azz over tea-kettle in love you wouldnt question it, You would just know

YOU do what MANY women do,,,YOU SNEEK and have a relationship with HIM,,,yet NO-ONE KNOWS IT!!!!!
Now thats just the truth,,but PERSONALLY,,,I think if you can't SHOW your man,,whats the point in having the man?
Many affairs go on like that for years,until they just have to find a new secret lover.......Life is NOT always what you see, but what lays in the shadows out of site... Good luck with whatever you deside to do..