son, when you put intimate details of your life out on a forum like this and ask opinions, you will get them. some you will like, some you will disagree with, some may piss you off. thing is you put it out there to begin with. why? you wanted feedback to help you weigh the pros and cons and make a wise choice? or did you want everyone to pat you on the back and say good job? you seem to have made your decision already. and that's ok, just stick to it and don't be afraid to suffer the consiquences if it doesn't go well. that is part of growing up. you will learn it all in due time. btw you certainly are a scoundrel there texas.

I more wanted to hear other experiences really more then feedback on my own situation.

How soon did you tell the other you loved them, or be told by them that they loved you?

I ask because, I have grown really really close to a girl in the last month as I've sort of referred to here recently. It's taken me a bit by surprise but it's happened, we still have to meet in person, but we talk online or by phone (sometimes both) daily. We're trying to take it slow or slower, so no I love you's just yet, but just curious for others how long it was before that came into play.