Topic: How come men over 30 seem to be the only ones interested in
Chishio's photo
Sat 10/09/10 11:28 AM
Elmo, aren't you a little young to be playing with knives?

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/09/10 11:37 AM

Elmo, aren't you a little young to be playing with knives?
pitchfork come on,tickle mepitchfork

Jess642's photo
Sat 10/09/10 12:54 PM
I have no idea where this thread went, which convoluted turn it took...I haven't read the whole thing...so I get to be a random post....yeehaa!!!laugh


I suspect you get checked out by older men because you are a younger woman...a fresh faced, pretty young woman...


if it helps I have 938 764277, 19-30 year olds I can swap you...:wink:

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Sat 10/23/10 11:50 AM
True, let's hope this one does....

tomntex's photo
Sun 10/24/10 09:57 PM
Edited by tomntex on Sun 10/24/10 10:00 PM
Well, I don't know what her problem is with older men! I haven't been on here in about a year and a half or longer.

As a man past sixty, I met and married the most beautiful gal in her early 20's. We get along great, travel a lot, just had a beautiful baby girl and we are living the life. She is very much in love with me, as I am with her.

I used to think age made a difference, but it doesn't, yes, we get the looks now and then. But the thing that counts is that we care and love each other. With people dying out here at 26 with heart attacks, know one knows how long they have with their mate, we can only live it to the fullest. I am forty three years older than her, but it makes no difference to her.

We have never had an argument or a fight, we are very happy with each other, go to church together and enjoy our new child together.

I hope that all the rest of you can find the happiness that we have. Don't set your sites so high that you can never obtain them.

God Bless,

Tom

mscherbear's photo
Sat 10/30/10 11:38 AM




over 30 guys like the younger ones cause they can still get out hike have fun with ya they are not like the old women sit on the sofa watching t.v. non stop

BULLCRAP! That's what old fuddy duddy men do and why I don't date them!

last 3 yrs ive turnd tons of dates down
all they want to do go stuff their face,sit in a theater
or sit at their place watch movies
anything fun outdoors or action involved they dont want to do
i hear all these women over 40 talk about how much they love photography ya invite them to go shooting pics,ya tell them of the walking involved all respond no problem sheeeet one mile later they are breathing like old broke down pack mules sniveling whinning and im not talking about just one woman so from what ive seen women over 40 only seem to be happy on their butts stuffing their faces in front of the tube



"Some" women over 40.. Not just "women" over 40:thumbsup:


My thoughts exactly. :thumbsup:

actionlynx's photo
Sat 10/30/10 05:42 PM
Edited by actionlynx on Sat 10/30/10 05:49 PM
I just checked the profile to see the pictures, and she looks young to me. Of course, once again I wish I was 15 years younger. Ah well. Nothing wrong with Geek & Gamer Girls. When I was younger and a bit dorkier, I would have loved to have met one....Then life took over, and things change.

Oh yeah....One more thing. It doesn't show in this picture, but most people when they meet me think I am 26-28 years old. It's a curse. The 20-somethings run when my real age comes out, and the ones close to my age don't even look at me. Where are all the cougars, huh? C'mon, I can act 28 again!

Maybe I should just gun for the early thirties crowd...

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Sun 10/31/10 01:45 PM

Is it my appearence or my profile?? I'm so confused because I don't want a relationship with an older man. I find it kind of insulting....do they think I look their age??
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NO they want to act yours.. Thats all older men want now days young girls to keep their youth..:banana: :banana:

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Sun 10/31/10 08:59 PM

Is it my appearence or my profile?? I'm so confused because I don't want a relationship with an older man. I find it kind of insulting....do they think I look their age??

Perhaps they just hope to get lucky.

Actually I find that women over 30 seem to think sex is a weapon...


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Mon 11/01/10 02:16 AM

Is it my appearence or my profile?? I'm so confused because I don't want a relationship with an older man. I find it kind of insulting....do they think I look their age??


You ask a question, you get an honest answer - please don't take offense.


Yes, in your current main profile pic you look like you are much older. You are wearing a hoodie, but not a dressed down, youngster style hoodie, more like a pink, decorated grandma style hoodie. You are wearing a bit of make up, and you could easily be an older woman wearing enough make-up that it covers her wrinkles. The bit of hair poking out of the hoodie has a wispy look that I associate with older women.

By pulling the hoodie up, wearing make up, and only giving a face shot, you aren't revealing much about your person - its something that older women are more likely to do.

If you want to be more obviously your age, I would lose the hoodie, wear less make up, and take a wider angle photo.

The picture with the bow seems to have the least amount of make-up, and its also the one in which you look the youngest, to me.

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Mon 11/01/10 02:19 AM

Actually I find that women over 30 seem to think sex is a weapon...


Some of the younger women also think sex is a weapon. Its ridiculous, especially when their need for sex is greater than mine.

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Mon 11/01/10 02:20 AM


Is it my appearence or my profile?? I'm so confused because I don't want a relationship with an older man. I find it kind of insulting....do they think I look their age??

Perhaps they just hope to get lucky.

Actually I find that women over 30 seem to think sex is a weapon...




And now you understand, grasshoppa! This is very true, and the older women wonder why the OG's flirt with the 20 somethings all the time. Cougars think that us men haven't figured out their game, but truth is, we have.

BellaV's photo
Mon 11/01/10 04:30 AM
Leave the poor girl alone. She is young and gonna say foolish things and later regret it. Hell i am in my late 30's and still do that. But don't add salt to injury. Ganging up on her and making her look stupid isn't the way to go. And she looks young. Let her have her fun. Let her voice her likes and dislikes. As an adult we should just try to guide her. If we can't then oh well. Big deal. The world will still turn. And out life will go on. Just be the bigger person and not hurt someones feelings.huh

metalwing's photo
Mon 11/01/10 04:44 AM
I thought you were a bumblebee trying to look like a girl!ohwell

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Mon 11/01/10 10:38 PM

men over 30 want younger girls because women over 30 can see right through their BS and have a tendency to be more picky, more experienced and have higher standards and expectations of what they want in a partner...




On the flip side a lot of us don't buy the BS women our age feed us like having to put up with the need for sudden and constant unthought out changes in life. Also we don't like the double standards women our age acquire.

There are some of us who don't play games or feed out the BS. I have never lied or misrepresented myself. So don't blame all of us wolves for being weasels!

Thank you!:banana:


Now this is me being really mean and cold since I have had to deal with a lot of that over the years from women I have known...

Why drive a used car when you can buy new?

flowerforyou


I have said from day one on this site love is a messed up game and the rules are arbitrary.

I want to make my home with a woman who wants to grow as a person and as a family even if we wait to have kids. There is a world to play around in in the mean time.

So why is it I am sized up by my shoes? How fair is that???

:banana: Higher expectations, yeah, they always seem to get to be more and more. Give a dog a foot of leash and she tries to run with the whole damn thing!

Yeah, us older men are all bad and evil and dirty and... hey, I'm 45 and don't look it at all? Why should I waste my time looking for anyone "My Age?" I have had GF older than me in the past. Heck, my last one was 8 years older than me but i have had a lot of time to think and I want a younger GF for a host of reasons. One is the lack of emotional baggage from previous relationships spoiling a good thing!


:banana:

pitchfork Yes the Pig is Loose!pitchfork

AndyBgood's photo
Tue 11/02/10 08:15 AM
Did I put this thread to bed????


I sure hope so!


And I am a Bastard, ain't I???

buttons's photo
Tue 11/02/10 08:22 AM

how old do I look?
well i looked.. seriously.. you look about 14.. perhaps they are looking cause you look like a minor? people all look for different reasons.. perhaps cause you are a new face on here.. they look when you change your main pic.. or look from something you said in the forums... maybe they just wondered what area you were from..

Happybone69's photo
Tue 11/02/10 08:26 AM

Is it my appearence or my profile?? I'm so confused because I don't want a relationship with an older man. I find it kind of insulting....do they think I look their age??
men are men and you are a beautiful woman! At least you are wanted! Whether they want you for sex or just to talk. Having a hangup over a persons age is a problem in my book. Be open! You might make a great friend! :)

kissablekiss's photo
Tue 11/02/10 08:29 AM
Ghost reading

mscherbear's photo
Tue 11/02/10 09:20 AM

Did I put this thread to bed????


I sure hope so!


And I am a Bastard, ain't I???


Surely you don't want an honest answer, right? :tongue: