Topic: What do men want?
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Fri 10/01/10 08:46 PM


Dodo, you have such a way with words, don't you? A free prostitute who does housework? Is that what you really think of women? Yikes.

Just because you don't want to have sex without marriage, why does it make it wrong? It's your preference. Why be condescending about it?


think you missed his point...hes saying hes the kind of dude that is interested in a more intimate relationship and that its not always about just having sex...
ohwell


I got that. But, he's calling women who do have sex outside of marriage free prostitutes. He doesn't seem to think highly of most women.

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Fri 10/01/10 08:51 PM
hold your horses. there are women who are willing to have sex outside of marriage? i had heard that they had discovered a new planet that was simular to earth, but i didn't believe it.

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Fri 10/01/10 08:57 PM



Dodo, you have such a way with words, don't you? A free prostitute who does housework? Is that what you really think of women? Yikes.

Just because you don't want to have sex without marriage, why does it make it wrong? It's your preference. Why be condescending about it?


think you missed his point...hes saying hes the kind of dude that is interested in a more intimate relationship and that its not always about just having sex...
ohwell


I got that. But, he's calling women who do have sex outside of marriage free prostitutes. He doesn't seem to think highly of most women.



agreed.

not to mention the fact that he doesn't seem to know the meaning of "prostitute"...

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Fri 10/01/10 08:57 PM

Dodo, you have such a way with words, don't you? A free prostitute who does housework? Is that what you really think of women? Yikes.

Just because you don't want to have sex without marriage, why does it make it wrong? It's your preference. Why be condescending about it?


Hey, I don't do housework... bigsmile

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Fri 10/01/10 08:58 PM



Dodo, you have such a way with words, don't you? A free prostitute who does housework? Is that what you really think of women? Yikes.

Just because you don't want to have sex without marriage, why does it make it wrong? It's your preference. Why be condescending about it?


think you missed his point...hes saying hes the kind of dude that is interested in a more intimate relationship and that its not always about just having sex...
ohwell


I got that. But, he's calling women who do have sex outside of marriage free prostitutes. He doesn't seem to think highly of most women.


must have missed that part...as a rule, I never read more than a line or two of a post...:tongue:

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Fri 10/01/10 09:02 PM

Dodo, you have such a way with words, don't you? A free prostitute who does housework? Is that what you really think of women? Yikes.

Just because you don't want to have sex without marriage, why does it make it wrong? It's your preference. Why be condescending about it?


Egads! Why do people keep putting words into my mouth?

My thinking is the opposite.

I used to be in the U.S. Navy, and during my time in the service I met plenty of guys who looked for girlfriends who would serve them as free protitutes who did housework. I do not think like that, but there are men who do think like that. I know so because I spent plenty of time talking to such men while I was in the military.

If a woman wants a sexual relationship without marriage, then so be it. I don't care one way or the other.

Just keep in mind that men and women do not think alike.

Sometimes when a man has entered a sexual relationship with a woman, he has accomplished his goal, and he isn't necessarily motivated to give the woman anything else that she may desire.

I am the opposite of such a man, which was the point of my last post.
I keep reading statements which claim that men are primarily motivated by a desire for sex. Such a claim is not true in regards to me.


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Fri 10/01/10 09:02 PM

hold your horses. there are women who are willing to have sex outside of marriage? i had heard that they had discovered a new planet that was simular to earth, but i didn't believe it.


I heard this story but it was in the Enquirer so I wasn't sure if I should believe it...

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Fri 10/01/10 09:04 PM


Dodo, you have such a way with words, don't you? A free prostitute who does housework? Is that what you really think of women? Yikes.

Just because you don't want to have sex without marriage, why does it make it wrong? It's your preference. Why be condescending about it?


Hey, I don't do housework... bigsmile


No need too, I got it Joy lol

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Fri 10/01/10 09:06 PM


Dodo, you have such a way with words, don't you? A free prostitute who does housework? Is that what you really think of women? Yikes.

Just because you don't want to have sex without marriage, why does it make it wrong? It's your preference. Why be condescending about it?


Hey, I don't do housework... bigsmile


laugh laugh

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Fri 10/01/10 09:07 PM



Dodo, you have such a way with words, don't you? A free prostitute who does housework? Is that what you really think of women? Yikes.

Just because you don't want to have sex without marriage, why does it make it wrong? It's your preference. Why be condescending about it?


Hey, I don't do housework... bigsmile


No need too, I got it Joy lol


(((Andrew))) does that mean I can get rid of the cleaning lady laugh Your girlfriend won't mind your helping me right? :wink:

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Fri 10/01/10 09:11 PM



Dodo, you have such a way with words, don't you? A free prostitute who does housework? Is that what you really think of women? Yikes.

Just because you don't want to have sex without marriage, why does it make it wrong? It's your preference. Why be condescending about it?


think you missed his point...hes saying hes the kind of dude that is interested in a more intimate relationship and that its not always about just having sex...
ohwell


I got that. But, he's calling women who do have sex outside of marriage free prostitutes. He doesn't seem to think highly of most women.


B.S.

I am not calling any women such a thing.

Yes, I feel angry because I am being mischaracterized.

I have been talking about the way that some men think.
Yes, Virginia, there are men who want nothing more than to use women to fulfill the men's self-centered desires. I have talked to plenty of such men who are that way.

I do not look at women as being objects to be used, and I am opposed to men treating women as sex toys. If a woman wants to have sex, then so be it, as long as she is not allowing herself to be mistreated by her sex partner.


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Fri 10/01/10 09:15 PM




Dodo, you have such a way with words, don't you? A free prostitute who does housework? Is that what you really think of women? Yikes.

Just because you don't want to have sex without marriage, why does it make it wrong? It's your preference. Why be condescending about it?


think you missed his point...hes saying hes the kind of dude that is interested in a more intimate relationship and that its not always about just having sex...
ohwell


I got that. But, he's calling women who do have sex outside of marriage free prostitutes. He doesn't seem to think highly of most women.


B.S.

I am not calling any women such a thing.

Yes, I feel angry because I am being mischaracterized.

I have been talking about the way that some men think.
Yes, Virginia, there are men who want nothing more than to use women to fulfill the men's self-centered desires. I have talked to plenty of such men who are that way.

I do not look at women as being objects to be used, and I am opposed to men treating women as sex toys. If a woman wants to have sex, then so be it, as long as she is not allowing herself to be mistreated by her sex partner.




I find it hard to believe you cannot look at the way you write things and see how others see you. If you were not saying that about women, why write it? Perhaps you need to word your comments in a different way so that no one can mistake what you mean.

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Fri 10/01/10 09:26 PM
On this thread, I stated how I do not think. Yet, I am accused of thinking that way. Go figure. whoa

The topic of this thread is what men want. I described what I want by contrasting it with what I do not want. I made a comparison between myself and many of the men I encountered while in the military.

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Fri 10/01/10 09:27 PM

On this thread, I stated how I do not think. Yet, I am accused of thinking that way. Go figure. whoa

The topic of this thread is what men want. I described what I want by contrasting it with what I do not want. I made a comparison between myself and many of the men I encountered while in the military.

You do not have to apologize for your observations.

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Fri 10/01/10 10:06 PM
Edited by Jono70 on Fri 10/01/10 10:07 PM

It isn't about what men or women want..... it's about what you personally want!

Figure out exactly what you want for yourself, your children, your well-being, etc. Then live your life! And if someone comes around that you can communication with and problem-solve with that wants similar things in life, great! If not, be true to yourself and do not compromise!


I want a 5 dolla foot long from subway, does that count? : /

ha honestly every man is going to want something different but like many said earlier be yourself don't let anyone change who you are.

Relationships are based on common interestes and attractions etc... honestly you would be better off looking for someone that has the most in common with yourself, the real question is what do you look for in a guy? I'm sure something long the lines, funny, smart, sexy blah blah blah so maybe a man might be looking for the samething in a woman... just something to think about!

Good Luck!

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Sat 10/02/10 11:32 PM
Bacon








Men want bacon.

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Sun 10/03/10 12:36 AM
Im 42 and a widow for 13 yrs now, am ready to start dating again as well. And believe me, I have no idea where to begin either. Things have changed soo much, and Im not sure if there is anything out there anymore that isnt about the quickie...is there? Wheres a great place for me to start, as i'm not into the bar scenes...an this is my first time in here?

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Sun 10/03/10 12:43 AM

Bacon








Men want bacon.



and to see boobies glasses

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Sun 10/03/10 12:12 PM
just be yourself, if a man your talking to doesnt like it then oh well, he is not the one or even on the list. its pretty much that simple. i mean a guy doesnt want you to try to be anything else except yourself. a guy will like you for who you are and not for who you are not. women dont like when guys lie so why lie to get with a guy? just like in life, we fall just to get back up, same thing with men or woman. we all take chances and some fail, oh well.

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Sun 10/03/10 08:19 PM
good sex and no drama