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I have a roommate that would like to be my partner but not carry the title of partner. That's how she feels this week. Last week she was okay with being roommates. The week before that she wanted to be "together" but her requirements were: 1. Change my number 2. Delete my facebook 3.stop talking to any chick who shows an interest in me. I managed to get all three done. But the next week we were back to being roommates. Here is my question, how do I introduce company into the home. She came to leave with me (as a roommate)but I feel bad but it's about "that" time and seeing as how I am the only one paying rent I don't feel like I should have to rent a room also. No, she is not sexually active with anyone as far as I know. Thanks for you input.
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First of all, you should've never comformed to those demands. I mean, those are conditions that she put on you. Did you put any on her? If not, then that shows she is a control freak. And what the hell is up with her changing her mind? Sounds like she is trying to hide you, or is embarrased by you. All I can say is that you need to evaluate why you want this relationship with her, and if she cannot do away with all the terms and stuff, I would call it off. Cause this will end badly for you.
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First of all she should want to be with you for who you are and not try and change you. Is that not why we find ourselves attracted to a man/women? She seems like a control freak and if this continues then the relationship could end worse than when it started. You should never have to second guess a relationship if it is worth your time.
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First of all, you should've never comformed to those demands. I mean, those are conditions that she put on you. Did you put any on her? If not, then that shows she is a control freak. And what the hell is up with her changing her mind? Sounds like she is trying to hide you, or is embarrased by you. All I can say is that you need to evaluate why you want this relationship with her, and if she cannot do away with all the terms and stuff, I would call it off. Cause this will end badly for you. yay she's a flippin control freak, and sounds way to jealous to even be friends with. |
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I have a roommate that would like to be my partner but not carry the title of partner. That's how she feels this week. Last week she was okay with being roommates. The week before that she wanted to be "together" but her requirements were: 1. Change my number 2. Delete my facebook 3.stop talking to any chick who shows an interest in me. I managed to get all three done. But the next week we were back to being roommates. Here is my question, how do I introduce company into the home. She came to leave with me (as a roommate)but I feel bad but it's about "that" time and seeing as how I am the only one paying rent I don't feel like I should have to rent a room also. No, she is not sexually active with anyone as far as I know. Thanks for you input. when someone tries to isolate u from ur friends or tell u who u can be friends with - it's an early warning of abuse. just FYI Run, not WALK away |
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I have a roommate that would like to be my partner but not carry the title of partner. That's how she feels this week. Last week she was okay with being roommates. The week before that she wanted to be "together" but her requirements were: 1. Change my number 2. Delete my facebook 3.stop talking to any chick who shows an interest in me. I managed to get all three done. But the next week we were back to being roommates. Here is my question, how do I introduce company into the home. She came to leave with me (as a roommate)but I feel bad but it's about "that" time and seeing as how I am the only one paying rent I don't feel like I should have to rent a room also. No, she is not sexually active with anyone as far as I know. Thanks for you input. falcon punch her in the face.. |
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Edited by
MisKim323
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Wed 09/22/10 08:50 PM
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First of all, you should've never comformed to those demands. I mean, those are conditions that she put on you. Did you put any on her? If not, then that shows she is a control freak. And what the hell is up with her changing her mind? Sounds like she is trying to hide you, or is embarrased by you. All I can say is that you need to evaluate why you want this relationship with her, and if she cannot do away with all the terms and stuff, I would call it off. Cause this will end badly for you. |
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"friends with benefits" only works if both side are benefitting, less than that, well dearie then you are just getting used and abused...
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First of all, you should've never comformed to those demands. I mean, those are conditions that she put on you. Did you put any on her? If not, then that shows she is a control freak. And what the hell is up with her changing her mind? Sounds like she is trying to hide you, or is embarrased by you. All I can say is that you need to evaluate why you want this relationship with her, and if she cannot do away with all the terms and stuff, I would call it off. Cause this will end badly for you. FYI...he is a she... |
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Change the locks.
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Save up some bucks and move out, leave no forwarding address, don't call, no texts, don't look back.
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Do you remember seeing string puppets when you were a kid?
Coz that's exactly what you'll be if you stay with this lady. If I were you, I'd run. If she's not prepared to let the world know that you are partners, she's really not interested in you, apart from as someone to control. |
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Change the locks. |
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