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Hi yall how are ya? I got a question for you all. If you meet a guy
online and he lives out of state when should he ask you for your telephone number? I kinda left this one in his court. I did not want to seem as if I was rushing him. But I want him to ask it's been two months now. Tell me what you think. |
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just be honest with him. Tell him you want to talk on the phone.
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depends on your online conversations.
if they last a long time- sooner. i am kind of shy, so i do not rush it because the more i talk to someone online the more i feel comfortable with them and it will make a phone conversation easier. |
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Is the fact that he hasn't asked one of those warning signs that he is
hiding something from me? |
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maybe, but not necessarily so
maybe he is trying to be a gentleman |
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2 months on line only? I may not last that long. But everyone is
different. |
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Thanks for the advice it helps to be able to talk about these kinds of
things before I let my mind run wild. |
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just be careful!!
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julie...
It all depends on how YOU feel. I know I much prefer to talk on the phone. To me....as nice as online chatting can be with IM's and such...there is nothing like the sound of a man's voice....to see how deep it is...how sexy it is. You know what I mean. Always....be safe 
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Ya honey take it slowly godd chance he doesnt wanna seem pushy but trust
your instinct and if red flags pop up, beware!!! 
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Maybe he just does not want to seem pushy. Talk to him about it, if you
guys have talked that long I am sure that you have an honest relationship by now. So there should be no harm in it. |
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May not want to be pushy. But I gave my number to my special someone
within the first month and 1/2. And he is still calling me. He didn't think I was pushy at all. Oh wait, he likes pushy women.  
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He sounds like a sensible man to me !
I,d never ask a women online for her phone number, I,d give her my number and ask her to call me, but if she wants to have a phone chat with me she had better initiate the number exchange. |
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Depends to me on how comfortable you are chatting with him. I have
talked to several people on line and over the phone. I have been chatting with this one guy for almost a year and asked if he would like to call but he is just not ready and thats fine with me. What ever both of you are comfortable with is what is important. |
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just ask him what he thinks....see if you thinks he is hiding something
or doesn't want to be pushy...it could be that he is really shy, if you think that's the case let him know it's ok to be nervous and make things comfortable for him...that's just my opinion |
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two months u should be able t ask by now..
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I agree, I would not ask for her number, I would give her mine, then
take it from there |
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