I have had to be independant most of my life-even as a child.
It is good to find a man who isnt threatened by that and it doesnt mean
Im not a team player. The thing I find about that is that the men I have
met seem to get lazy and expect me to do everything. I dont want another
child- I want a partner. To find mutual support (emotionally) and
admiration for each other as individuals. I dont need a boss or dead
weight -Its about "balance" and alot of ppl are either one extreme or
the other. I have had to be independant because I could never depend on
anyone else.