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I suggest you two things: Love yourself first and ahead of anything else in this world and second, accept it´s not written on stone that we are to be happy only and exclusively if we meet the white armored knight, there´s nothing written on our lives about marriages and relationships, anything of any sort can and will happen and we´re no one to change it and not always include a relationship. People tend to get desperate if they´re 35 years old and still single instead of getting involved in fulfilling activities for themselves.
If you love yourself over anything else, you´ll be in a better position to be loved...but don´t forget it´s not written on stone. |
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Most guys see you and think wow she's fat, or she needs to stop stuffing her face, or if she were skinnier I would date her...Well to you men who think that, I hope you have fun with the girl you settled for because of good looks. Anyways, I just wanted to post this and see what other people have to say! I think it's more the attitude they don't like. Just like how women get annoyed by a nice guy always whining about how women do not like nice guys... they're over it. |
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little cushion for the pushing never hurt anyone
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Im not even overweight and I have issues just because Im not a size ZERO! Honey, most guys live in a fantasy world, which is why so many 30 and 40 year olds are running around still single. They dont realize it yet, but soon enough they will have passed the benchmark of finding anyone and be left to wither away with their bald head and wrinkled faces. I have also dated guys with beer bellies and funny how TWO-SIDED some of them can be. Im 5'10 and with my height my weight is very disguisable, however good I look in my clothes, at the end of the day, I went from 109 lbs before kids to now, and I am still left with the aftermath of stretch mark scars for life. So just focus on the ones who do and WILL want you. Your personality will say it all. Good Luck and just know, when you do find the right guy it's because he's into you, not because you had to lose twenty pounds or something. Don't change yourself if you are already healthy babe!
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Im not even overweight and I have issues just because Im not a size ZERO! Honey, most guys live in a fantasy world, which is why so many 30 and 40 year olds are running around still single. They dont realize it yet, but soon enough they will have passed the benchmark of finding anyone and be left to wither away with their bald head and wrinkled faces. I have also dated guys with beer bellies and funny how TWO-SIDED some of them can be. Im 5'10 and with my height my weight is very disguisable, however good I look in my clothes, at the end of the day, I went from 109 lbs before kids to now, and I am still left with the aftermath of stretch mark scars for life. So just focus on the ones who do and WILL want you. Your personality will say it all. Good Luck and just know, when you do find the right guy it's because he's into you, not because you had to lose twenty pounds or something. Don't change yourself if you are already healthy babe! Someone sounds jaded! |
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Try being a dork. It's maddening! Ugh. Tell me about it. And chicks wonder why dorks go for sluts. It's cause they are the only ones who will not touch your PS3, 360, PSP, and other assorted gadgets. Just have to hide the porn from them. its true sluts cant touch electronics or theyll burn |
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Who dat say dey don't lub dem some BBW wimmens ... ? Ah lub ALL y'all li'l wimmens, BBW or not ... true i lub all the wimmens of the world |
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Im not even overweight and I have issues just because Im not a size ZERO! Honey, most guys live in a fantasy world, which is why so many 30 and 40 year olds are running around still single. They dont realize it yet, but soon enough they will have passed the benchmark of finding anyone and be left to wither away with their bald head and wrinkled faces. I have also dated guys with beer bellies and funny how TWO-SIDED some of them can be. Im 5'10 and with my height my weight is very disguisable, however good I look in my clothes, at the end of the day, I went from 109 lbs before kids to now, and I am still left with the aftermath of stretch mark scars for life. So just focus on the ones who do and WILL want you. Your personality will say it all. Good Luck and just know, when you do find the right guy it's because he's into you, not because you had to lose twenty pounds or something. Don't change yourself if you are already healthy babe! Someone sounds jaded! Jaded? I am happy. Im not against surgery or anything either. I think people should be happy with who they are. If they arent then go get surgery. But dont do it on account of another person. I personally want to feel sexy at all times. I have my eyeliner tattooed, because my eyes tend to water a lot, and I know my eyes are grey so they are very light and my skin is light, I know I feel sexier when I have my eye make-up on. Personal preferences I guess. |
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Im not even overweight and I have issues just because Im not a size ZERO! Honey, most guys live in a fantasy world, which is why so many 30 and 40 year olds are running around still single. They dont realize it yet, but soon enough they will have passed the benchmark of finding anyone and be left to wither away with their bald head and wrinkled faces. I have also dated guys with beer bellies and funny how TWO-SIDED some of them can be. Im 5'10 and with my height my weight is very disguisable, however good I look in my clothes, at the end of the day, I went from 109 lbs before kids to now, and I am still left with the aftermath of stretch mark scars for life. So just focus on the ones who do and WILL want you. Your personality will say it all. Good Luck and just know, when you do find the right guy it's because he's into you, not because you had to lose twenty pounds or something. Don't change yourself if you are already healthy babe! Someone sounds jaded! Jaded? I am happy. Im not against surgery or anything either. I think people should be happy with who they are. If they arent then go get surgery. But dont do it on account of another person. I personally want to feel sexy at all times. I have my eyeliner tattooed, because my eyes tend to water a lot, and I know my eyes are grey so they are very light and my skin is light, I know I feel sexier when I have my eye make-up on. Personal preferences I guess. you do what you feel but tattooing your eyeliner is one of the most hard core things ive ever heard of you deserve some respect |
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Edited by
Edy_ca
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Tue 09/07/10 11:03 AM
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I dunno that i am more confident than when i was 110lbs...or even if i am less.
I have always known, however, that there is more to me than meets the eye. I have never defined myself by one particular thing, whether it be looks, smarts (or luck there of), being a mother, a wife, an ex, a future.. I am made of so many layers..and when someone fails to see all of me, then i don't want them if i am 110lbs or 200lbs. |
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Edited by
Oceanbluze
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Tue 09/07/10 11:01 AM
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Im not even overweight and I have issues just because Im not a size ZERO! Honey, most guys live in a fantasy world, which is why so many 30 and 40 year olds are running around still single. They dont realize it yet, but soon enough they will have passed the benchmark of finding anyone and be left to wither away with their bald head and wrinkled faces. I have also dated guys with beer bellies and funny how TWO-SIDED some of them can be. Im 5'10 and with my height my weight is very disguisable, however good I look in my clothes, at the end of the day, I went from 109 lbs before kids to now, and I am still left with the aftermath of stretch mark scars for life. So just focus on the ones who do and WILL want you. Your personality will say it all. Good Luck and just know, when you do find the right guy it's because he's into you, not because you had to lose twenty pounds or something. Don't change yourself if you are already healthy babe! Someone sounds jaded! Jaded? I am happy. Im not against surgery or anything either. I think people should be happy with who they are. If they arent then go get surgery. But dont do it on account of another person. I personally want to feel sexy at all times. I have my eyeliner tattooed, because my eyes tend to water a lot, and I know my eyes are grey so they are very light and my skin is light, I know I feel sexier when I have my eye make-up on. Personal preferences I guess. you do what you feel but tattooing your eyeliner is one of the most hard core things ive ever heard of you deserve some respect Thank you, and it's hurts much worse than a tattooe anywhere else. so GUYS PAY ATTENTION! |
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you do what you feel but tattooing your eyeliner is one of the most hard core things ive ever heard of you deserve some respect Thank you, and it's hurts much worse than a tattooe anywhere else. so GUYS PAY ATTENTION! i bet i cant think of much thats more painful |
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ok , maybe a ballsack or the inside of your anus, HAHAHA
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ok , maybe a ballsack or the inside of your anus, HAHAHA true that would be painful |
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First off, I would just like to state..yea I am a thicker woman but proud of it! Secondly just because I am curvy doesn't mean I am not healthy and doesn't me I have health issues, or issues with eating to much. I think thats my biggest problem with guys out there. And it's not all of them, just a lot. Most guys see you and think wow she's fat, or she needs to stop stuffing her face, or if she were skinnier I would date her...Well to you men who think that, I hope you have fun with the girl you settled for because of good looks. Anyways, I just wanted to post this and see what other people have to say! 
So men are supposed to accept women regardless of their body shape. Does this mean that women are supposed to accept men regardless of their body shape. |
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Im not even overweight and I have issues just because Im not a size ZERO! Honey, most guys live in a fantasy world, which is why so many 30 and 40 year olds are running around still single. They dont realize it yet, but soon enough they will have passed the benchmark of finding anyone and be left to wither away with their bald head and wrinkled faces. I have also dated guys with beer bellies and funny how TWO-SIDED some of them can be. Im 5'10 and with my height my weight is very disguisable, however good I look in my clothes, at the end of the day, I went from 109 lbs before kids to now, and I am still left with the aftermath of stretch mark scars for life. So just focus on the ones who do and WILL want you. Your personality will say it all. Good Luck and just know, when you do find the right guy it's because he's into you, not because you had to lose twenty pounds or something. Don't change yourself if you are already healthy babe! Someone sounds jaded! Jaded? I am happy. Im not against surgery or anything either. I think people should be happy with who they are. If they arent then go get surgery. But dont do it on account of another person. I personally want to feel sexy at all times. I have my eyeliner tattooed, because my eyes tend to water a lot, and I know my eyes are grey so they are very light and my skin is light, I know I feel sexier when I have my eye make-up on. Personal preferences I guess. My "jaded" comment came from your comment about men. Not about your body type. I should have clarified. Fact of the matter is that a good portion of men and women do have an issue with body type. I don't care what people say. The actions of men and women prove that body type does matter to them. Most women want a guy who is in shape and is attractive. Most guys want that as well. Most women want a good looking guy who makes them "hot for them". Most men want that from their woman. BTW....Goof will not tat his ballsac. Never! |
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Who dat say dey don't lub dem some BBW wimmens ... ? Ah lub ALL y'all li'l wimmens, BBW or not ... true i lub all the wimmens of the world 
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It's all about personal taste, I wouldn't mind a big woman.
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Im not even overweight and I have issues just because Im not a size ZERO! Honey, most guys live in a fantasy world, which is why so many 30 and 40 year olds are running around still single. They dont realize it yet, but soon enough they will have passed the benchmark of finding anyone and be left to wither away with their bald head and wrinkled faces. I have also dated guys with beer bellies and funny how TWO-SIDED some of them can be. Im 5'10 and with my height my weight is very disguisable, however good I look in my clothes, at the end of the day, I went from 109 lbs before kids to now, and I am still left with the aftermath of stretch mark scars for life. So just focus on the ones who do and WILL want you. Your personality will say it all. Good Luck and just know, when you do find the right guy it's because he's into you, not because you had to lose twenty pounds or something. Don't change yourself if you are already healthy babe! Someone sounds jaded! Jaded? I am happy. Im not against surgery or anything either. I think people should be happy with who they are. If they arent then go get surgery. But dont do it on account of another person. I personally want to feel sexy at all times. I have my eyeliner tattooed, because my eyes tend to water a lot, and I know my eyes are grey so they are very light and my skin is light, I know I feel sexier when I have my eye make-up on. Personal preferences I guess. My "jaded" comment came from your comment about men. Not about your body type. I should have clarified. Fact of the matter is that a good portion of men and women do have an issue with body type. I don't care what people say. The actions of men and women prove that body type does matter to them. Most women want a guy who is in shape and is attractive. Most guys want that as well. Most women want a good looking guy who makes them "hot for them". Most men want that from their woman. BTW....Goof will not tat his ballsac. Never! Oh Okay, in that case, you are correct, yes I dated guys with big ole bellies but yet they are wishing for some tall super model who hangs out at nude beaches. Take a look in the mirror buddy. |
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Im not even overweight and I have issues just because Im not a size ZERO! Honey, most guys live in a fantasy world, which is why so many 30 and 40 year olds are running around still single. They dont realize it yet, but soon enough they will have passed the benchmark of finding anyone and be left to wither away with their bald head and wrinkled faces. I have also dated guys with beer bellies and funny how TWO-SIDED some of them can be. Im 5'10 and with my height my weight is very disguisable, however good I look in my clothes, at the end of the day, I went from 109 lbs before kids to now, and I am still left with the aftermath of stretch mark scars for life. So just focus on the ones who do and WILL want you. Your personality will say it all. Good Luck and just know, when you do find the right guy it's because he's into you, not because you had to lose twenty pounds or something. Don't change yourself if you are already healthy babe! Someone sounds jaded! Jaded? I am happy. Im not against surgery or anything either. I think people should be happy with who they are. If they arent then go get surgery. But dont do it on account of another person. I personally want to feel sexy at all times. I have my eyeliner tattooed, because my eyes tend to water a lot, and I know my eyes are grey so they are very light and my skin is light, I know I feel sexier when I have my eye make-up on. Personal preferences I guess. My "jaded" comment came from your comment about men. Not about your body type. I should have clarified. Fact of the matter is that a good portion of men and women do have an issue with body type. I don't care what people say. The actions of men and women prove that body type does matter to them. Most women want a guy who is in shape and is attractive. Most guys want that as well. Most women want a good looking guy who makes them "hot for them". Most men want that from their woman. BTW....Goof will not tat his ballsac. Never! Oh Okay, in that case, you are correct, yes I dated guys with big ole bellies but yet they are wishing for some tall super model who hangs out at nude beaches. Take a look in the mirror buddy. Well. Dudes like that can dream.....and live in fantasy land.
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