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Sun 09/05/10 06:57 AM
i found out that i am pregnant but i am curious what is the best way to tell my dad that i am having a child, he has been all over me since i move in with my boyfriend and now this happen i am not sure what to do about it,

another question we have a 6 year old together it's his daughter from another women but i am curious what can i do to get her to do what i want i know this is a big question any more but if i want to get married some day i want her to take me serious then all fun, her dad has things for her to do but i can't get her to do any of them,

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Thu 09/09/10 11:38 PM
well if you are already pregnant might as well tell your dad straight out, the baby is coming whether he knows now or later. You may want to let him know gently like "you know we have been living together so obviously we are intimate, and we are having a child together, please be supportive and help us give this baby as much love as possible. I'm already pregnant so getting mad at me won't change the situation, it will only make it worse"

Two-the 6 year old. Dont force her to do anything you tell her to. And I am not saying you do or anything, but being that you are not her natural mother is hard for her already, not you but having been seperated from her birth mother and all. The best way to get her to follow your rules and direction is to be supportive and build as much trust as you can. Discipline with a gentle hand and while the father is present so that she know you mean business and have teh support of her father, good luck.

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Sat 09/11/10 07:17 AM

well if you are already pregnant might as well tell your dad straight out, the baby is coming whether he knows now or later. You may want to let him know gently like "you know we have been living together so obviously we are intimate, and we are having a child together, please be supportive and help us give this baby as much love as possible. I'm already pregnant so getting mad at me won't change the situation, it will only make it worse"

Two-the 6 year old. Dont force her to do anything you tell her to. And I am not saying you do or anything, but being that you are not her natural mother is hard for her already, not you but having been seperated from her birth mother and all. The best way to get her to follow your rules and direction is to be supportive and build as much trust as you can. Discipline with a gentle hand and while the father is present so that she know you mean business and have teh support of her father, good luck.


thanks a lot that helps a lot, there is no need to get all up set about it because i am not living with my perents any more and it has all ready happen so you are right about that,

her mother is not in the picture in any way so she is learning from me and her father, and where all was doing things together and she is a lot of fun to be with