I am married and for the most part happy, I love my husband , he is a great man but Ive always been missing something. He is a get the job done kind of guy but he's not a passionate person. Theres never any hugging or making out and very rarely is there any cuddling. Thats just not who he is, but it's who I am. He is a partner in 3 different companies and his time is very limited, I need more.

My first ad I placed I met a very nice lady that I'm becoming friends with unfortunately she's not ok with me being married, I was really bummed especially after seeing her picture and talking with her but I respect that and look forward to becoming good friends with her and at the same time I still desire to be in a long term relationship with another woman that includes being sexually intimate as well.

I haven't been with another woman since I was younger, I feel like a virgin again. I'm definately ready to experience a relationship with another woman again. Even though I have no desire to leave my husband over the past few years we have been discussing the idea of me being with a woman to fill the void I have in my relationship with him, I thought yeah I bet lol but a few weeks ago we had a more detailed conversation and to my surprise he said he was ok with me having a full on relationship with another woman, this means dates, movies hanging out as much as we would like and even sleep overs(you at my house) a true relationship I was shocked and excited at the same time. My husband said he feels it is possible to love more than one person and so do I, so here I go.

I am looking for a woman who only likes women, a single lady that is willing to commit to me, I dont want to date a married woman because I am looking for a long term relationship, I realize that sounds selfish but that is what I am looking for. I like a little meat on the bones. Im ok with tomboys but please no butch ladies I have one guy im not looking for another one. There will be absolutely be no touching or sex that involves my husbands participation EVER!!!!!!!

Im a very loving person with lots of love to go around, I love tatoos and have quite a few of my own including a sleeve. Looks arent as important as personallity and a connection. Im not looking for a one night stand I am looking for another life partner as crazy as that may seem, if things work out and progress the way I hope they will hopefully the right person will be moving in my house with me.

I love the outdoors and shopping. I also love quiet times at home curled up on the couch watching a movie. I would love to find a woman who loves kids and family time. You need to be ok with hanging out with the family being discrete of course. My husband and I dont display affection in public and I wont with a female either Im just not that kind of person. I hope you will give me a chance to show you this can work, to show you we can work. I know that I probably sound like a scatter brain , I promise you Im not. Im just excited by the possibility of getting everything Ive always wanted.

If you feel this is something you are interested in and you are ok with me being married please respond to me.

Good luck to you. I hope it works out to plan.

Thank you Captain! So do I.

A few more picture in you profile might help out.

Any luck???

I've had several responses one looks promising but haven't met yet hopefully all will go well with the initial meeting.

When are you going to meet?

Not sure, I asked her to let me know what her schedule looks like we'll see when she responds.

Hopefully soon!

Would you like to have coffee tomorrow?

I don't drink coffee and I don't think my husband would approve of me meeting a man instead of a woman.

Thanks anyway.

Oh well. I hope you enjoyed the BSU game.

I did! In true BSU fashion they pulled it off, what a nail biter!

Loved it!

Your husband wouldn't have anything to worry about with you meeting up with my fiance. He's just a sweetheart.

I don't doubt he's a sweetheart he seems like a nice man BUT my husband was very clear on what's acceptable and what isn't he trusts me to do the right thing and what we agreed to and that's what I must do.

No worries by me.

I just hope you find everything you are looking for.

And thank you babe.

Did you get together yet?

Yes we got together, did some dating, I took her to Vegas for 5 days but it just didn't work out. She's in a 12 step program and I guess the temptations in Vegas scared her which I can understand thankfully she didn't lose her sobriety.

She is a nice person, very pretty and I'm hoping we remain friends.

I guess between the nightlife of going to strip clubs (which by the way are amazing there!) in vegas and the shopping during the day it's a lot to try and keep up with.

Now I'm looking again :(

Good luck in your search.

How is the new search going???

Hello Captain..I hope all is well.