When you date online it is about physical attraction. When you meet someone face to face (not online) then your personality, smile and animations can trump appearance.

Are you saying that you have NEVER met a woman that is not your type? You are attracted to every woman you meet? Doubtful - and it's if you answered "no".

Physical attraction is as important as personality; there is nothing wrong with wanting both. One quality may be initial and the other secondary; however, both will come into play at some point.

I am probably gonna catch hell for what I am about to say. But you know me.....I aint scared.

A "High" portion of women can be viewd as "cold hearted". (Let's that sink in for a moment)

When I was younger, and I weighed more, I used to get the line of "You are an awesome guy...a good friend. But, if only you weren't as big as you are.....". Now, my view at one point and time was "Man. That is cold hearted." But, when you think about it, the chicks were voicing their opinions....their preferences. To them, they would've dated me had I not weighed so much. Notice that I said that my "view" was that they acted "cold hearted". That was how I felt at the time. But it didn't take me long to see that the truth was that they just were not attracted to me.

I say this because....in all honesty....that is what the dude who started this thread is going through. Chicks, the ones he is interested in, are not into him. So of course he will lash out. Not fair....but it is how some guys will deal with rejection. Bottom line is that women are just being honest with him. They don't find him attractive. Yeah, that hurts. And, he probably does feel that women are cold hearted biatches. Truth is, they are being honest. And sometimes honesty is a biatch to handle.