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Topic: open mindedness
s1eep1ess Joined Mon 08/02/10 Posts: 21	Wed 08/18/10 06:02 PM
I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship... I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so.. What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 08/18/10 06:11 PM
Its OK to be closed minded about things like that especially with all the STDs around today. If you're not comfortable with certains things, that's OK. And if people are making you feel pressured into opening to something you're not into, get away ftom those people. Don't change for anyone but you.

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Wed 08/18/10 06:14 PM
Ya gotta be true to yourself. If you are not into sharing then don't. Everyone wants what they want. if it does not coincide with what you want, well... You should be able to tell where this is going. Open minded could include some sick fetish or include sexual practices that are both shocking and sick. My mind is only open to so much. The rest? Yech! Who wants to get coated in poo? Not me!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 08/18/10 06:14 PM
I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship... I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so.. What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to? Is that really considered 'close minded?' Honestly, just seems like preference differences to me.

s1eep1ess Joined Mon 08/02/10 Posts: 21	Wed 08/18/10 06:25 PM
I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship... I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so.. What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to? I haven't had sex for a long time its just hard to find someone who isn't all about sex so I tend to shy away from those people.. I'm not compromising myself just since I've been single I learned why more thangs I needed to know about some thangs lol

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 08/18/10 06:28 PM
There's no need to rush. Take your time, work on you if you have to, enjoy life, have some fun. When you're ready it'll be better.

s1eep1ess Joined Mon 08/02/10 Posts: 21	Wed 08/18/10 06:36 PM
Ya gotta be true to yourself. If you are not into sharing then don't. Everyone wants what they want. if it does not coincide with what you want, well... You should be able to tell where this is going. Open minded could include some sick fetish or include sexual practices that are both shocking and sick. My mind is only open to so much. The rest? Yech! Who wants to get coated in poo? Not me! Oh yea not me either lol.. Yea I'm like you I'm only into so much too...

s1eep1ess Joined Mon 08/02/10 Posts: 21	Wed 08/18/10 06:43 PM
Is that really considered 'close minded?' Honestly, just seems like preference differences to me Yea that's what I thought but to some people your a prude and closed minded.. Rather be that way then to have sex with different people I don't even know lol

s1eep1ess Joined Mon 08/02/10 Posts: 21	Wed 08/18/10 06:52 PM
There's no need to rush. Take your time, work on you if you have to, enjoy life, have some fun. When you're ready it'll be better. Yea that's what I think too.. Its been since 07 and until I find that one special man then I will have sex again.. I know a lot of people going without now days... Which to me I think its remarkable..

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 08/18/10 08:52 PM
Goof says no to his butt ever being plugged!

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 08/18/10 09:02 PM
I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship... I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so.. What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to? tell him you would be willing to that if is willing to have one with another guy and see just how open his "mind" is

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 08/18/10 09:19 PM
I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship... I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so.. What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to? tell him you would be willing to that if is willing to have one with another guy and see just how open his "mind" is Or if he's open minded enough to do the dishes and vacuuming aftah. well that's just silly, everyone knows vacuuming has to be done first!

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 08/18/10 09:49 PM
I have had a lot of people ask me if I'm open minded.. But there is so much that people are into these days which is good for some but others aren't cool with it.. Does that mean their close minded cos they don't want to share their partner or mate?? Does it them close minded cos they aren't into bdsm, being bi wanting to be the only ones in the relationship... I told someone I wasn't into sharing or into the whole three some thing with a woman... Does that make close minded?? He thought so.. What's some of the thangs your open minded and not so open to? tell him you would be willing to that if is willing to have one with another guy and see just how open his "mind" is I've used that one often... I always seem to win that conversation

Suzanne20 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9261	Wed 08/18/10 10:10 PM
I am open only to my partner...not open to stds

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 08/19/10 05:22 AM
I'm open to STBs (Soft T##ties Bouncing)

ujGearhead Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 6612	Thu 08/19/10 05:28 AM
I'm open to it raining beer and hailing chocolate.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Thu 08/19/10 05:31 AM
Well when it comes to sex I am EXTREMELY open minded thank God I found a man here who is also!!! I'm not so openminded about: atheism abuse war raising of children etc

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Thu 08/19/10 05:33 AM
Goof says no to his butt ever being plugged! Lmfao!!!!

pmarco41 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2163	Thu 08/19/10 06:44 AM
Goof says no to his butt ever being plugged! and I was going to send you a nudge....

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Thu 08/19/10 06:49 AM
People have to CHOSE their own paths. What works for you, should be your main concern. Find someone that means enough, you BOTH COMPROMISE, for eachother. That is a relationship to me.