Topic: Ladies...under what
Derekkye's photo
Wed 08/11/10 07:05 PM
circumstances would you consider having sex on a first date? is it strictly a no-no for you, or is it something unlikely but possible, or quite likely if it's the "right" person, or definately cause you're just in the mood for it?

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Wed 08/11/10 07:08 PM
Edited by Kings_Knight on Wed 08/11/10 07:08 PM
Why is this same question posted in two different forums ... ?

Derekkye's photo
Wed 08/11/10 07:10 PM

cause it was moved

Dragoness's photo
Wed 08/11/10 07:13 PM
I guess never for me. I have to feel I know the person a bit first.

delilady's photo
Wed 08/11/10 07:14 PM
Definite no for me. I can't know someone well enough in one evening to decide to have sex with him. This way there are no "Oh God what was I thinking" moments!

tinker0090's photo
Wed 08/11/10 07:20 PM
i would need to know the person good before we had sex

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Wed 08/11/10 07:33 PM
what if you knew the guy real well on the internet ??

dianadidit's photo
Wed 08/11/10 07:33 PM
I'm going to go against the grain here. If it's like this...we been talking a while. I share my life, he shares his. We are grown ups....I'm going for it.

Dragoness's photo
Wed 08/11/10 07:38 PM
Friends with benes works for this kind of "just horny" situation. You know them well and nobody gets hurt by it.

Meeting a stranger is not the way to go though. Too risky.

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Wed 08/11/10 07:41 PM
Absolutely not. Never believed in hook-ups, friends with benefits, casual sex, etc. I have to be in an actual relationship that has mutual commitment and looks, for all intents and purposes, like it's going to be long term.

buttons's photo
Wed 08/11/10 07:47 PM
ill say this..... no! although it has happened before... in the far past..... what an idiot i was too!

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 08/11/10 08:27 PM
I used to for different reasons. Mostly because I just want to and without expectations of a 2nd date.

I don't feel this way anymore. I need a deeper connection.

Now that I am using the internet as another means to meet people, I am actually overly cautious now. I want to make sure the person is who they say they are – and not some big ‘ol lying tater tot. laugh

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Wed 08/11/10 08:31 PM
back in the 80s, a few drinks, a line or two and i was good to go..now a days...well...as long as ive got fresh batteries, it isnt a concern anymore....

blushing

RKISIT's photo
Wed 08/11/10 08:32 PM
love deeper connectionblushing

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 08/11/10 08:32 PM

back in the 80s, a few drinks, a line or two and i was good to go..now a days...well...as long as ive got fresh batteries, it isnt a concern anymore....

blushing


Oh! That reminds to add batteries to my shopping list! winking

RKISIT's photo
Wed 08/11/10 08:33 PM
love BOBlove

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Wed 08/11/10 08:35 PM

love deeper connectionblushing


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