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Topic: honesty
bigojockey Joined Fri 06/25/10 Posts: 72	Sat 08/07/10 05:49 PM
if you email someone and ask them out,would you prefer them to respond honestly if they,re not the least bit interested,make up some lame excuse to try not to hurt your feelings,just ignore you like they didn,t get your mail?personally i prefer people being brutally honest with me,how about your opinions?

venusenvy Joined Sat 07/31/10 Posts: 2984	Sat 08/07/10 05:51 PM
Honesty is the best policy. However if Im not interested I dont respond

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sat 08/07/10 05:54 PM Edited by Gossipmpm on Sat 08/07/10 05:55 PM
I always respond And I am honest with you I expect the same it's not hard to be polite but still be honest sometimes they get it sometimes they don't some get nasty but that's not my problem! But I'm always honest!!

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Sat 08/07/10 06:14 PM
I always respond And I am honest with you I expect the same it's not hard to be polite but still be honest sometimes they get it sometimes they don't some get nasty but that's not my problem! But I'm always honest!! I agree 100% with you on that. It's not too hard to be polite and honest.

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Sat 08/07/10 06:14 PM
Too many guys on Mingle reply with horrible, nasty responses if I say, "Thank you but we are not a match". I never know who will be polite or who will react acrimoniously; therefore, I don't reply to any emails unless I know the person already (on my friends wall).

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 08/07/10 07:51 PM
Are you emailing them on like...email number one and asking them out? Cause dude...that is hardcore, and I commend you. But I have to know if the chick is.... 1. Not crazy 2. Can handle humor 3. Doesn't mind my small penis 4......Wait.....What?????

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Sat 08/07/10 07:56 PM
Are you emailing them on like...email number one and asking them out? Cause dude...that is hardcore, and I commend you. But I have to know if the chick is.... 1. Not crazy 2. Can handle humor 3. Doesn't mind my small penis 4......Wait.....What????? Goof!!! You had me at "humor"

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Sat 08/07/10 08:05 PM
I was always partial to "I'm washing my hair that night." I mean that's a lot of time with suds on your noggin, but if it's what they want to do. From what I can tell, women only have about 278 ways of saying "no," then they start getting repetitive. So if you haven't heard all the reasons yet, you have something to look forward too!

Kings_Knight Joined Sat 01/31/09 Posts: 3718	Sat 08/07/10 08:08 PM
if you email someone and ask them out,would you prefer them to respond honestly if they,re not the least bit interested,make up some lame excuse to try not to hurt your feelings,just ignore you like they didn,t get your mail?personally i prefer people being brutally honest with me,how about your opinions? Everything they say is a lie. They are unable to tell the truth. But what they are telling you now is the truth. What do you believe?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 08/07/10 08:10 PM
I like to be strung along & then after about ten emails, never here from them again, you know " The usual"

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 08/07/10 08:11 PM
Are you emailing them on like...email number one and asking them out? Cause dude...that is hardcore, and I commend you. But I have to know if the chick is.... 1. Not crazy 2. Can handle humor 3. Doesn't mind my small penis 4......Wait.....What????? Goof!!! You had me at "humor" Melody! Did I ask you those three questions?