What do most guys look for in a girl BESIDES their looks? What makes or
breaks his decision to pursue her?

I was looking for someone like me
Someone with morals and goals, a great parent , someone who valued
family morals, someone intelligent but could laugh too
I found my soulmate on a dating site
I never believed in that phrase until I met her
That help you out?

yeah, that makes sense, Im. thanks

intelegence, integrity and sincerity.

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intelligence, humor and how resposible they are

responsible......and if they can deal with typo's LMAO

I believe intelligent, an awesome personality, and a sense of humor make
up the overall look of a woman. Sure external beauty would be nice but
it doesn't justify the beauty from within.

cool is right what is in the head and what is in the heart matter the
most.

One that can move past the toilet seat controversy easily and get into
much more important matters...

Like who scrubs who's back first in the shower!

thanks for the answers, guys. just wanted to see how it works on the
other end of the spectrum.

sure my friend

First off they have to be human, lol...

ok all joking aside, for me a lady has to be

A: intelligent (doesnt have to be a rocket scientist).

B: She has to be compassionate.

C. She has to have a sense of humour.

D. open-minded

E. love kids

F. Soemone who will not back down on her morals just to make
life easier

G: Not expect me to make a million dollars a day or to live
like I do

H: I would PREFER to fins a lady that is willing to stay home
and raise the children while I am at work, but hey she
might have the better job at which point I would be willing
to stay home and raise the children (this does not mean
I want her to stay in the house all day long either. I
just feel one parent should be home for the kids when they
get off the school bus, or when they leave for school.

I: Someone who could except me and my children for who we are
and not try to change us (unless of course we are sick and
messed ourselves )

J: I would prefer to find a lady who has welcomed Christ into
her heart, but will accept someone who is open minded
enough to mot condemn me for having done so.

I could go on and on, but it all boils down to a lady being a lady and
wanting to do her best to make the relationship work as well as
expecting the same outta me. Oh and she needs to be willing to knock me
down a peg if I get too high handed lol.

Personality, charm, understanding. faithfulness, humour.
If you have these then looks become immaterial. Beauty is in the eye of
the beholder.

















Although filthy rich would be an added bonus.

honesty, sinserity, i am looking for a loving person, no materialistic,
wants a familly, (knows how to cook, not inportant but its a plus)
someone that its open to try new thing, i mean like shear my intrest, i
mean i would like some one that a lil dif then me when it come to
hobbies n sush, i can take her to do what i like n she can take me to
do what she likes


Idk if thats the kind of answer u r looking for buts that basicly what i
want

I like Daniels answer!!!!!

If there is no compassion in her heart, it dies there.

I have learned (the hard way) that the cute and dumb type doesn't work
for me. I look for someone with intelligence, someone who has the
ability to express that intelligence, and who doesn't mind utilizing it.

Communication is the key to any relationship, in my opinion, so she
should also be able to communicate well.

Honesty, compassion, the ability to be a friend as well as a girlfriend.

I like the independently-minded type, the one who questions authority
and who won't fall into the trap of "I need to _____ because that's what
society says you're supposed to do."

I like creative types, the writers and artists and musicians and
photographers, the ones who have a talent, know they have a talent, and
seek outlets for it.

Of course, there is a logistical problem, inasmuch as I run into one
such person every 630 years, but I can wait.

I'd rather be alone than be with the wrong person. If I wanted to be
with the wrong person, I would have stayed married.

I'm attracted to attraction.........If she doesn't appear to be
attracted to me, I won't give her a second look.......I've NEVER been
influenced by looks.

I like the looks that has to come first then the personality I mean if
you don't like the way the person looks then I don't think it will work
out