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ACCEPT us as we are, don't think you can change us.
Give us a reason to WANT to change. Then ACCEPT it if we don't. Same idea for men dealing with ladies. Good rule for dealing with ANYONE; really. |
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I agree. 100%!!!!!
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ACCEPT us as we are, don't think you can change us. Give us a reason to WANT to change. Then ACCEPT it if we don't. Same idea for men dealing with ladies. Good rule for dealing with ANYONE; really. I think it's best if WE just find one that is the way we want them to be...is much easier than expecting people to change. If someone one wants us to 'change', aren't they really saying they don't like who we are, what we are. I guess I don't understand the wanting to change people thing... it doesn't compute for me. |
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Men are wonderful, fascinating and beautiful in all their simple complicated-ness and oblivion. Anything done with integrity and pure intentions is 'forgivable'. We gals remember everything, were just like that, we also recognize sincerity when it's right in our face... Right on, sometimes we do stuff and in our tiny whittle bwains, it seems like the right thing to do or say....If our hearts and minds are focused as much as we can focus, on the right thing, then give us a break when we a stuck on stupid. 
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I don't understand it either!!
Drives me nuts!! I pick a man for the personality-moral-values-life ideas that I like. That's why I NEVER try to change them but I've had enough who tried to mold me into what they wanted me to be!! Grrrrrrrr. Uuggggggg then I just walk out the door !!
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ACCEPT us as we are, don't think you can change us. Give us a reason to WANT to change. Then ACCEPT it if we don't. Same idea for men dealing with ladies. Good rule for dealing with ANYONE; really. I think it's best if WE just find one that is the way we want them to be...is much easier than expecting people to change. If someone one wants us to 'change', aren't they really saying they don't like who we are, what we are. I guess I don't understand the wanting to change people thing... it doesn't compute for me. However, educating someone that a change might be good for them, just gives them an alternate choice. I changed for my "soulmate" because I wanted to. She never asked, just showed me the differance & left the choice to me, we were together EITHER way. She had ALREADY ACCEPTED me. |
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ACCEPT us as we are, don't think you can change us. Give us a reason to WANT to change. Then ACCEPT it if we don't. Same idea for men dealing with ladies. Good rule for dealing with ANYONE; really. I think it's best if WE just find one that is the way we want them to be...is much easier than expecting people to change. If someone one wants us to 'change', aren't they really saying they don't like who we are, what we are. I guess I don't understand the wanting to change people thing... it doesn't compute for me. However, educating someone that a change might be good for them, just gives them an alternate choice. I changed for my "soulmate" because I wanted to. She never asked, just showed me the differance & left the choice to me, we were together EITHER way. She had ALREADY ACCEPTED me. That is so true, if I know that something will make my love/lover happy and it is a changable thing that does not detract from who I am, "poof" it's changed. Then everyone is happy. This thing called life goes by so fast and sometimes change is good.... |
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If "CHANGE" can = "HAPPY"; I changed as soon as I understood.
CHANGED because I WANTED TO. Wish I could make a change, now. |
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We're Not All Bad
you might be doing it wrong! 
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FANTASTIC point, long time since I have seen that clip. |
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xd4o2ell7KU
Comin to ya on a dusty road Good lovin I got a truck load And when you get it you got something So dont worry cause Im coming... |
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women have told me that no matter how bad they feel i could always cheer them up with my dry sense of humor or my tell it like i see it attitude
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 We Bad
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Edited by
Jess642
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Sun 08/01/10 12:35 PM
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OK..maybe a bit insecure, in need of validation, feeling a bit bashed lately because of the bad apples ruining the basket..... Ladies, what do we (men) do "RIGHT"? What makes you love us? Remember that we are clueless and don't necessarily pick up on "signs". Please clue us in on the behavior that makes you forgive our many faults.
Being able to move small mountains...(giant rocks)....in a single step... Being able to build Viking marauder drawbridges with bare hands... Providing and protecting those that are dear to one... Making chicken Taj Mahals out of scrap timber and old wire netting... Understanding the intrinsic values of another and working around one's own to 'fit' with them.. After having six adult male workmen living in my home for the past few months/weeks...I have a new appreciation for manland.. ...but ...(and it's a smaller butt than it was..)....I am not genetically encrypted to cohabitate with Y chromosones... 
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OK..maybe a bit insecure, in need of validation, feeling a bit bashed lately because of the bad apples ruining the basket..... Ladies, what do we (men) do "RIGHT"? What makes you love us? Remember that we are clueless and don't necessarily pick up on "signs". Please clue us in on the behavior that makes you forgive our many faults.
[/quote Well, there are some very charming men out there. I can't speak for other ladies; I require honesty and communication and want to be treated as an equal. I personally don't like posturing from men; just be yourselves. |
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Saying something silly out of the blue, making me wonder what the heck you think about sometimes and it makes me laugh.
Showing sincere empathy and consideration for someone completely different from you out of the blue and for no particular reason. Showing your tenderness and protection of a child, yours or another's. Watching you step out of your logical mind to try to understand my emotionality sometimes. Looking lost and displaced when I don't feel good and you are not sure how to help. Seeing that tear up from watching Man on Fire or the Green Mile or a movie like that. Your patience when I ask a question about sports. Etc... |
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I made Jambalaya for the first time tonight. It came out just right (actually it's just about done) I guess I did that right. Alone tonight, I must have done something wrong /shrug I have Dos Equis, Jambalaya and Adult Swim. All that I need for now 
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