Hello All,
need little advise , I basically fell in love with my best friend . Her ex is out of the picture. they had a little boy and I have basically been raising him since he was 1 he is 2 1/2 now. She has a major commitment issue. She has a wild side she wants to get out . Evrything she invested in the last relationship blew up on her. I don't blame her for not wanting to be in another relationship. I was that way too.. why I had been single for 6 years. But, so my problem.... I feel a love so.... deep for this women that it hurts! and bring tears to my eyes not to be with her and her child which I love as much as it were mine. We messed around in the beginning but, she said was getting too serious. She didn't want that . Which I understood. She tells me that I mean the world to her and she would be lost without me.. But, we are not together.. don't kiss don't sleep together. She says she knows I would be great man, the best man, but she just can't commit. I don't know what to do about these feelings I have for her . I mean wow..its not a puppy love thing. It is a love, you can't control..one that takes over your whole body gives you chills makes you cry makes you feel every emotion all at once. I have told her that and more but still can't get her to commit. She says she isn't even happy with herself...so how can I make her happy? I just don't know what to do....? I am up for any solution or ideas on how to deal with this. By the way this is my neighbor ...so can't just stop coming around.
Edited by romancingu on Tue 07/27/10 01:56 PM

Hello All,
need little advise , I basically fell in love with my best friend . Her ex is out of the picture. they had a little boy and I have basically been raising him since he was 1 he is 2 1/2 now. She has a major commitment issue. She has a wild side she wants to get out . Evrything she invested in the last relationship blew up on her. I don't blame her for not wanting to be in another relationship. I was that way too.. why I had been single for 6 years. But, so my problem.... I feel a love so.... deep for this women that it hurts! and bring tears to my eyes not to be with her and her child which I love as much as it were mine. We messed around in the beginning but, she said was getting too serious. She didn't want that . Which I understood. She tells me that I mean the world to her and she would be lost without me.. But, we are not together.. don't kiss don't sleep together. She says she knows I would be great man, the best man, but she just can't commit. I don't know what to do about these feelings I have for her . I mean wow..its not a puppy love thing. It is a love, you can't control..one that takes over your whole body gives you chills makes you cry makes you feel every emotion all at once. I have told her that and more but still can't get her to commit. She says she isn't even happy with herself...so how can I make her happy? I just don't know what to do....? I am up for any solution or ideas on how to deal with this. By the way this is my neighbor ...so can't just stop coming around.
Edited by romancingu on Tue 07/27/10 01:56 PM