Topic: What to do...
AngelMapper's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:12 PM
I just found out a x of mine I thought passed away after I move when I was 16 is alive... I blamed myself for years, now I find her alive. and she has a kid. I havnt spoken to her yet because I dnk what to say. This girl was litterally the love of my life... I dnk wtf to do or think... help please.

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:13 PM
why did you think she passed away?

ralphe009's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:15 PM
Whats stopping you ? Think you need to figure that out first. If you have feelings for her and the option exists, why not pursue?

AngelMapper's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:15 PM
Its a complicated story, but I left california in a rush and lost all contact with my friends when I did. it was litterally a last secound desision. But I got a letter with no return address two weeks later from one of my friends saying she had killed her self because I had left...

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:17 PM
well if she isn't the one that lied about it, why not contact her to say hi?

If she was behind the lie, then I'd walk away.

But, personally, I wouldn't be friends with that friend any more. That isn't right to lie about something like that

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:19 PM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Sun 07/25/10 05:19 PM
Wow

the two of you need a quiet place and lots of heart to heart


Good luck. I send love!


Tammy:heart:

Italy0219's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:54 PM
Well maybe the time is right for you to find out...this happened for a reason...if you lost her once don't give up the chance to see if she is in a relationship, but don't get your hopes up...ppl change, situations change..she might not be interested now...but prepare your heart

Totage's photo
Sun 07/25/10 06:29 PM

I just found out a x of mine I thought passed away after I move when I was 16 is alive... I blamed myself for years, now I find her alive. and she has a kid. I havnt spoken to her yet because I dnk what to say. This girl was litterally the love of my life... I dnk wtf to do or think... help please.


What's stopping you from tallking to her? What's the problem?

misterfreeze's photo
Mon 07/26/10 12:24 AM
Start the conversation off with. "So I was talking to John Edwards the other day. Funniest thing your name came up."

kc0003's photo
Mon 07/26/10 12:53 AM
ok, i don't mean to be rude here, but isn't someone faking their own death a pretty good indication that they do NOT want anything to do with you?
what does she have to do next, sent the roadrunner to drop a 700 pound anvil on your head?

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 07/26/10 01:01 AM

ok, i don't mean to be rude here, but isn't someone faking their own death a pretty good indication that they do NOT want anything to do with you?
what does she have to do next, sent the roadrunner to drop a 700 pound anvil on your head?



I have to agree with you KC.. Adding the caveat that she and her friends were extremely immature and said that she died to try to hurt him... child games...