I wanted to be married by 30 have at least one child by the age of 35 ..not gonna happen any time soon .

how about you did you have anything you would of liked to happen?

I was sort of hoping to have found "The One" before now -- I never had a specific age-point in mind, 30 or 35 or anything like that....

Just figured it would have been "before now."

As I get older, I see more clearly that there is no real compatibility out there for me. And probably never was. I'm just better at recognizing those who fake it now.

My goal is to NOT get married or have kids, ever.

My goal is to possibly be married but never, ever have kids in or around my life; just pets!

Other goals have been reached so I need to reach for more.

Yeah, I have no interest in kids, either. And I've been married once, and that was more than enough.



Other goals seem so much easier -- I wanted to be a published author, and now I've got 4 books out there, with a 5th coming out very soon.

Compared to finding a compatible partner, writing a book is easy....!!

I had about the same goal originally....here's the reality though:

Married at 23...divorced at 32...no kids
Married again at 32...divorced again at 41...no kids
Now it's never again on marriage and physically impossible on kids.

But...the bright side is I have an awesome job and an adorable little "fur baby" and I can practice having kids all I want!

My goal to own a new Harley came true last summer after many yrs..but I still have lots of things on my todo list, like a shark dive in a cage..

I echo these sentiments.

I am on the last 6 units for my master's program and I will graduate in December. I am seriously thinking of continuing with my doctoral program. I also believe that task seems much easier than finding a compatible partner.

I had a goal of getting married and having kids. I got married but that ended in divorce. Her daughter made me realize that kids are not for me. As for other tangible goals, I am drawing a blank. I am just wandering around aimlessly...

Dream girl

Yea

wanted to sleep with Sam Elliot before I was 40

sooooo ain't gonna happen!


Go figure!

I had almost he same goal, by the time I was 30 I wanted all the crazy partying behind me, get married, settle down but I want nothing to do with kids!

I hope I never have to stop the crazy partying just because I get married. I never want to settle down.

I read in a lot of profiles that guys say they want to settle down and leave that behind them. I "LOL" because I imagine they will be boring if they change; they might think they have to in order to get married or become responsible in a different way.

I don’t want a guy in socks and sandals with shorts hiked up to their arm pits ready to make it a night on the town at Olive Garden.

I figure if I meet the right guy, we will keep doing what we do but TOGETHER! Vegas baby!

Yeah I was hoping to win the lottery last Friday. Never wanted kids or marriage; that would mean being responsible so not going to happen.

I hope you're practicing "making" kids and not "having" them lol

Have done the wife/mother thing (much better at mother than wife, lol). Now, striving to gain wisdom & serenity.

Well I have one child..

The goal was that we were going to get a house asap. Then another baby in 2 years and eventually get married.. Now I'm here single.

Now I can perv all I want

I used to carry expectations, but I kept getting disappointed.

I quit doing that.