I need a little help building my profile. Its hard enough to get used to this site (after using other, simpler and prettier ones), but I don't know exactly -what- to put in there.

Should my profile be long?
Should I include the best things about me (Licensed Pilot, Personal Trainer, Work-at-home Computer Technician), or should I save that for conversation?
Are shirt-less pics frowned upon? What if I'm totally ripped, does that change? Would that make me appear vain and "douchebag-like"?
Should I even bother with the profile or just lurk on the forums?

AM I ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS?!?!

Make some decisions for yourself and show these ladies you are a real man!

br you whatever that is.... and if the girl is right for u she'll find it sexy!

Thats 2 for 2 saying "do it yourself". Anyone here have an actual opinion?

what i wrote was an actual opinion.

But if you want another opiniion, just write something honest, which is funny and interesting. Nobody can tell you anything more specific than that.

If you still need any more help, you can copy and paste my blurb on your profile for 10 dollars per month.

Haha I'm just trying to get a feel for the community here is all. On OKStupid, I had (and still have) a shameless ab shot for the girls, and across the forums I get ridiculed for it.
I laugh it off, but its hard to make connections when other guys make it their life goal to ****-blcok you.

No Kidding no one can tell you how to be you!!

Just be who you are!

i like your profile... leave it!

Well I just changed it up a bit. Maybe its the one you already saw. I ended up just putting all my cards on the table, shameless Ab shot included. Hahahaha

u sure you arent making me look again?

yep same one leave it lol!!

Your profile is very good. It made me want to read more rather than...blah, okay, whatever, and moving on. Keep it as is...I'm sure you'll snag someone sooner or later.

You did a good job showing your personality.

You might want to add in a little about what you are looking for in a partner.

Welcome to the site.

Theres an idea. I'm not quite sure what I'm looking for though. Haha.

Everyone has preferences, at least list those.

SANTA!!!! I knew you were real.

You tell him Dan!

You want opinions? Well here's pages of them on shirtless pics. Of course I started the thread to whine about guys who should NOT take their shirts off because they have nothing to brag about anymore. You're 20 .. Make it so.


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