I went to go meet a guy I met on here and we were really for it being the first meeting and everything but I thought we seem to really hit it off. Excluding how shy and nervous we were. There was a family emergency andthings didn't go so well. He lost a family member the day after I left and we still talk but we seem so distant compared to a month ago.

He even told me how girls hit on him so much now which never use to happen and how he likes it. He even picked up a girl once and said he never does that? But even if your seeing someone I don't feel you should be picking up another girl? The distance for us is only an hour but neither one of us drives. So we have to go by train.

We use to take an interest in each others lives and now I feel it's a one way street. Can this change with time as it could be just because he is grieving??

Chelsea it's time to cut & run - doesn't sound like he's any great catch anyway if he doesn't know better than to talk to you about other women he's dating. I think that it is mean to do that to you & u can do waaaaaaaaay lots better than that nonsense -as u r very cute!