I sent out about 20 nudges and never received one responce. Did my
nudges go through?
Why can't you put your email address in your message? How are you
supposed to contact the person? Can you put your ph. no.?

Have you tried interacting on the forums first and seeing if she is here? My suggestions is to get in here on the forums, join in on the games and discussions, get noticed and then nudge. Just my opinion from one new member to another.

Hi jimachine,

There is not a sent box for nudges to see if they went through. I haven't heard of any glitches with the nudges, so more than likely they went through.

As far as the contact information, without going into great details, we have email filters that effect the initial emails.

As chris_pc suggests, join in the forums. That is a good way to get to know members.

Good luck to you,

Kim

Unless you have a prior connection with a member, most will ignore nudges from strangers. I do; as a matter of fact, I block guys that nudge me more than once if I don't know them. If I was interested, I contact them. It's just annoying when they nudge all the time and make no further effort AND they should realize I would contact them if I was interested.

I'd rather have the person email me using the Mingle email system. I would never, ever go to an outside email system when Mingle has a perfectly fine system. I also wouldn't exchange personal information with anyone until some time had passed and I know them better.

Join the forums and meet the active members!

Welcome and good luck

The new member chris has it figured out!