Me and some friends were out at a bar the other night. It was obivous a girl was giving my friend the googly eye. When asked why he wouldn't go talk to her, all he could say was, "she's outta my leauge."

Now I understand some people can't read the signs like others, but...

Do you ever find yourself hesitant to interact solely based on appearence? And if so why???

because ..well with me..Im scared of getting hurt.rejected.

To answer your question,Yes.


kinda answered that backwards...consider the source.*Blonde*

Confidence is everything......I am lucky to have a boat load of it.....I am not skeered to interact with any woman. If I feel the beat of my heart quicken, I must find out and seek that, no mater the outcome....Sometimes you have to take life in little sips, and sometimes in big gulps. I am not afraid of getting hurt, but I am petrified of never knowing if the lady I did not try to interact with, was the best thing that could have happened to me....

If I see a guy driving a new BMW and wearing Armani, I think he is out of my league. If, however, he is giving me the eye and showing interest, I will approach him.

If he looks at me like I am bottom feeder, I stay in my corner.

Confident men are sexy as hell.

Word... there is nothing I could add to that.

No way

ya know

maybe you younger ppl have not lived long enough yet to come to the realization that


"Looks really do not mean all that much!!!!"

I've talked to ppl society says "not good looking"

who---right before my eyes

became gaaaawgous to me

and

beautiful ppl who became just downright ugly !!!



Maybe it comes with age---I don't know

It is our cross to bare.

Love your picture............

Negative - I'm quite bold and extroverted ...


Like a cat, I always act on my curiosity ...


Life's to short to hesitate and regret ...

Hi Melody If I saw you approaching me from across the room, I would look in back of me the see who the lucky man was. Then if I realized it was me....I would snap to attention...

You're silly! :

See, this is why bars don't do it for me. Campsites, bonfire and people drinking are far more interesting. I can ghost in, screw with their heads, and ghost out. Depending on how drunk they are, it's downright hilarious.

i dont cuz thats who i am i always give it a go whats the worse that could happen not be interested?

All I will say is.....Goof likey being chased.

I usually end up going after the best looking one I can find. There were twins once, both very pretty and they were dancing in this bar..so I just couldn't just stand around so I walked up and basically said "I just wanted to say that you 2 are truly beautiful women here It's amazing that you are twins also and equally pretty!" They liked that one a lot..but I guess I was one of the many though..since all the other guys were hitting on them, but none would actually just talk to them, instead trying to dance with them without saying a word.

Many times it's a problem too, because I can't find anyone good looking so I end up just looking around all night and then just call it for the day.

If he's letting me know he's interested and I want to know more, I'd not be intimidated...I like it when they let me know there interested, if I'm interested there gonna know...

hell yea... if they're that hot, then they don't need me... every good looking guy with confidence will be hitting on them, and thats just too much...

Ever occur to you guys that when you see a woman that you feel is "outta your league", that if she gives you that look, that perhaps, oh I dunno......SHE COULD BE F'N INTERESTED? I find that when a woman takes the time to look at a guy, or tries to give him any signal that she is interested, well....guess what? She's freaking interested. Nut up, talk, laugh, play, shag.......Peace be with you!

what exactly is the "look" anyway? women look at me all the time, but i don't know if it's
"come on, lets go" or "WTH is wrong with him"... i don't read signals very well, and not even gonna try to. but if shes that hot, it's more than likely WTH is wrong with him look anyway.

Dude, you can tell what "The Look" is, because if she looked at you with that "horrid" look (like if she had to sit through watching six hours of Teletubbies) then yeah....your screwed. But "the look" is the eyes basically watching you with interest. And, sometimes, the look is her basically "eye phucking" you.