Sorry, I need to rant and rave for a bit. You do not have to read it.
Just me complaining.

I am going through a big mess right now. All legal stuff. I am doing
everything in my power to get it resolve. But it seems like every time I
try they keep adding more things for me to do. I am not sure how much
longer I can stay strong. I am becoming so weak that it is almost
unbearable. I cry constantly, I fight with the people that are closest
to me. All because I can't take it anymore. I am o sick and tired of the
court system it's not funny. I try to be a good person. But it seems
like that is coming to bite me in the ass. I do not know where to find
strength any more. Or even if it exists. People say that I am strong.
But they do not see my tears. They do not see my loneliness. They do
not see my heart.

If you read this far, I thank you. I am not looking for sympathy at all.
I just needed to get this off my chest I guess.

(((Whisper)))

P.S. I'll get Lion to kick their arses for you...(I'm too little to do
it)

Know the feeling.
Laws have been changed so that you, almost, have to have an attorney to
do anything. Bunch of BS. Law is about money, NOT right & wrong
anymore. Native's deal great example, 2-3 ladies assualted & they are
IGNORED by the law on scene; it takes 7-10 days for her to get a
response from local law enforcement. Odds are it will all get swept
under carpet. Same BS down here.
Not what you know, but WHO you know.
Glad I know my local guys presonally.

Whisper ... :)
Glad you are comfy enough around US to " let her go" as they say ... out
with it ..
Good luck my friend , and blast me IF you need anything ..

(((((((whisper)))))))))


The one thing that the court system isn't is EASY...It can wear down the
strongest of people...Keep your chin up and make sure you have lots of
loving people around to support you through it!!!!!!!

(((((((Whisper)))))))

I understand what you're saying.

The system isn't interested in the people involved anymore -- on some
level it's all statistics and funding and paperwork and "officials"
covering their asses at the expense of the ones who inevitably get hurt.

And they're never in any hurry to resolve anything.

The best thing I can tell you is that it WILL end at some point. There
will be a resolution. Not today, not tomorrow, but down the road. You
have already planned for this. When things get difficult and you need a
break from "now," just think a little bit about what you will be doing
"then." How your life can be different, better. How the people you
need, need you just as much, and will continue to do so, today,
tomorrow, next month....

I wish I could fix it for you, I really do. Because I would.

For now, just know that you are loved and that there are people who will
stand beside you through this.

And afterwards, too.

((((((((((WHISPER))))))))))

Whisper...I hear you when you say other people think you are so strong
and don't see the tears....Its ok to cry and be frustrated....even when
they don't see you doing it. You are human and you are
allowed!!

If the outcome is worth the fight, then the fight is true and from that
you can find straight

Stay strong Whisper sis...just vent when ya need too, it helps to get
the frustration out .

{{{{{{Whisper}}}}}}

I hope it all works out for you. There is nothing wrong with
venting....especially here. We will listen to you, when ever you NEED us
too....

{{{{ Whisper }}}} Thinking of you

(((whisper))) took me three years, and believe me, I know how hard,
frustrating and how the sadness can feel overwhelming. Talk to us and
e-mail me anytime, ok? The courts are a slimey place to have to go and
deal with. I don't know if I can help, but I can be an ear if you need
one.

Being seen as strong, can be hurtful. I agree....your human, you face
the loneliness, and shed the tears just like the rest of us....remember
your not alone in this battle....friends stand by your side...shed the
tears....we will shed them alongside you....Prayers with you in your
struggle

i tryed to read her profile says acc been deactivated

or his

yeah apparently she is missin.... we are all prayin everything is
alright with her and she will be back soon... she is a great person and
very well liked