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Topic: If.........
sherry4382's photo
Tue 06/29/10 11:56 PM
you had a bf or a gf and they lived 4 hours away from you, how often would you want to see them and talk to them on the phone?

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Wed 06/30/10 12:02 AM
WoW we could text everyday...........See one another on our days of hopefully spock that would be hard so e would need to figure something out! :angel:

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 06/30/10 12:03 AM
Depends on how serious it would be. Id say at least give them a call every night just to wish them a goodnight. You dont have to talk for hours...just a simple good night would do And probably visit every other weekend.


...and i thought you were going to bed?

kc0003's photo
Wed 06/30/10 12:04 AM
4 hours is not that far to travel....every other weekend would suffice in the beginning.

now the phone, that's depends on a lot of different things each circumstance is unique. i should think it would be frequent at first at least until the bright and shiny wore off a bit.

sherry4382's photo
Wed 06/30/10 12:05 AM

Depends on how serious it would be. Id say at least give them a call every night just to wish them a goodnight. You dont have to talk for hours...just a simple good night would do And probably visit every other weekend.


...and i thought you were going to bed?


Can't sleep!!yawn

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Wed 06/30/10 12:08 AM
WARM MILK..........HOT BATH............TEA......:wink:

sherry4382's photo
Wed 06/30/10 12:09 AM
I already took a hot bath..not workin

sherry4382's photo
Wed 06/30/10 12:46 AM

4 hours is not that far to travel....every other weekend would suffice in the beginning.

now the phone, that's depends on a lot of different things each circumstance is unique. i should think it would be frequent at first at least until the bright and shiny wore off a bit.


Thanks for the adviceflowerforyou

Jtevans's photo
Wed 06/30/10 01:49 AM
there's not enough info for me to answer that....


how often is she PMSing?when is she horny?is she going to buy my gas?


i need info!

Seakolony's photo
Wed 06/30/10 05:02 AM
I went through working out of town often, but got to see him just about most weekends. Probably went about 3 weeks w/o seeing talked probably a couple times a week before bed.

no photo
Wed 06/30/10 05:19 AM
From July of last summer until early May of this yr my girl friend lived 2.5-3 hrs away. I believe it was a at least a couple times a wk.
Now she lives 15 minutes away and we see each other quite a bit, and call often too.

Phuque2's photo
Wed 06/30/10 05:24 AM
Edited by Phuque2 on Wed 06/30/10 05:26 AM
Time away from your lover/bf or gf can be your best friend or your worst enemy..........The phone is just a long distance oral fix, 4 hours is just a very, very small thing and should NOT be an issue for love.........Just my opinion.......Good luckflowerforyou

Seakolony's photo
Wed 06/30/10 05:49 AM
Actually, I prefer a long distance relationship.......It gives me the time to myself that I need and fills the voids of having someone around too.........just not long enough to stay on your nerves....you know what the saying is....distance makes the heart grow fonder (I really understand this)........If they aren't around enough for what you love about them to start becoming annoying......then they never become annoying......

RoamingOrator's photo
Wed 06/30/10 05:50 AM
I used to date someone who was six and a half hours away, we saw each other every weekend for about eight months. Each of us alternated which direction we went.

Phuque2's photo
Wed 06/30/10 06:00 AM
I drove seven hours for work yesterday......If I profess to love someone, a few hour drive ain't no thang......

sherry4382's photo
Wed 06/30/10 07:12 AM
Thank You for all the advice...I just wanted opinions just to see where others stood on this. flowerforyou

Totage's photo
Wed 06/30/10 07:35 AM
Edited by Totage on Wed 06/30/10 07:37 AM

you had a bf or a gf and they lived 4 hours away from you, how often would you want to see them and talk to them on the phone?


I wouldn't have a girlfriend that far away, but if I did, I would want to see her atleast on the weekends, or every other weekend. We would be talking on the phone everyday. There would be constant texting too.

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 06/30/10 07:35 AM

you had a bf or a gf and they lived 4 hours away from you, how often would you want to see them and talk to them on the phone?


Every other weekend. I'm not a big phone talker. In fact, I hate talking on the phone. But, some daily communication would be good.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 06/30/10 08:08 AM

Actually, I prefer a long distance relationship.......It gives me the time to myself that I need and fills the voids of having someone around too.........just not long enough to stay on your nerves....you know what the saying is....distance makes the heart grow fonder (I really understand this)........If they aren't around enough for what you love about them to start becoming annoying......then they never become annoying......


May I fill out an app for your next LDR?:wink: laugh

MikeTM76's photo
Wed 06/30/10 08:09 AM
I've always found long distance relationships to be hard for both parties involved.

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