Topic: He How Old?
ADiamond's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:31 AM

I ask this... why would you take his number if you arent gonna call him? my personal opinion.. there is nothing wrong with having friends of all ages..

what will you do with him? well find common interests


Dear Lady!!!! You do have a point....humm!!!thanks for that one....flowerforyou

mbcasey's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:36 AM




Did you find him attractive? Go for it!

Why not?


Yes, He is very handsome, with a smile that sparkles....Why not? He's 28what


You look very young for your age.

If you don't try you may regret it. In this day and age (no pun intended) it is more acceptable for older women to date younger men. I still say go for it...what have you got to lose??flowerforyou


Thank you for your kindness...Well, since you put it that way.....I really don't like having regrets...biggrin


I have been on dating sites for almost 4 years and if you have someone interested in you and you are attracted to them, you need to give it a try.

I hope you do!! Best of luck to you.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:36 AM
Age doesn't matter that much to me. I've met some guys in their 20's who are more mature then guys my age. Older, younger. I don't care. One of my closest friends is 26.

Jtevans's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:39 AM


you really don't look any older than 35 flowerforyou


Thank you!!! You are very kind....:wink:



yeeeeeep.....that's me,So Kind JT *does the Barney Fife sniff* yep.....glasses

buttons's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:41 AM
ill tell you what.. age difference at our age is not the same as when you were younger.... i remember when i was 35 and 25 was way too young for me....
however.. at 47 i dated a guy 32 and the difference was surprisingly different...
the first couple of months i thought i really like him! well i still do.. just we decided to be friends.. we have done things together after that as friends for another 9 months, movies, hikes etc.. however not judge his age.. but his mental mentality of his self.. he is too young..
though just friends.. i didnt date anyone else in that time nor did he. I would of though<since just friends>
I can tell you this.. it will cause mixed emotions if you do really like him.. and you spend lots of time together..
He just recently asked me to be his girlfriend... since i had to struggle my thoughts on it... it was a pain in the azz and in the end really we are both hurt... yes i said no..
id rather both of us be a lil hurt rather than later both being hurt really bad... good luck to youflowerforyou i really suggest trying to not go as far with it as i did...

ADiamond's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:44 AM
Thanks mbcasey

ADiamond's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:46 AM

Age doesn't matter that much to me. I've met some guys in their 20's who are more mature then guys my age. Older, younger. I don't care. One of my closest friends is 26.


This is all new to me....but it sound good!!

ADiamond's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:48 AM

ill tell you what.. age difference at our age is not the same as when you were younger.... i remember when i was 35 and 25 was way too young for me....
however.. at 47 i dated a guy 32 and the difference was surprisingly different...
the first couple of months i thought i really like him! well i still do.. just we decided to be friends.. we have done things together after that as friends for another 9 months, movies, hikes etc.. however not judge his age.. but his mental mentality of his self.. he is too young..
though just friends.. i didnt date anyone else in that time nor did he. I would of though<since just friends>
I can tell you this.. it will cause mixed emotions if you do really like him.. and you spend lots of time together..
He just recently asked me to be his girlfriend... since i had to struggle my thoughts on it... it was a pain in the azz and in the end really we are both hurt... yes i said no..
id rather both of us be a lil hurt rather than later both being hurt really bad... good luck to youflowerforyou i really suggest trying to not go as far with it as i did...


WOW! Thank you for sharing that helps and I think I will make a new friend....flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:53 AM
oh and would i do it again? well i have never searched out for someone that young.. and never would.. however like i said i thought back because when i was younger i did date someone that age... for me i recalled a difference in the maturity level.. yes i compared!! so it wasnt his age.. my answer would be yes i believe i would try it again and i would take all those things into factor...

Rondoobie's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:55 AM
In my experiencce, much younger guys can be a lot of fun at first, but then they are a lot of work. Seems they are looking to be taken care of, want more of a mommy than a lover. Conversations get more sparse after a few years. And it makes you feel old when you go to reminisce and realize, for instance, that he was in diapers when you were enjoying the bicentennial.

buttons's photo
Tue 06/29/10 09:57 AM
call him... talk to him on the phone.. then go from there if you have things in common go meet him then... he may be so gross on the phone you wont even want to meet him lol... you never know

ADiamond's photo
Tue 06/29/10 10:01 AM

oh and would i do it again? well i have never searched out for someone that young.. and never would.. however like i said i thought back because when i was younger i did date someone that age... for me i recalled a difference in the maturity level.. yes i compared!! so it wasnt his age.. my answer would be yes i believe i would try it again and i would take all those things into factor...


Funny thing is I saw him looking at me, and Yes HE caught my eye...but I would have never thought he was interested until he gave me his number...I was so flattered and taken back!!!! biggrin

ADiamond's photo
Tue 06/29/10 10:02 AM

In my experiencce, much younger guys can be a lot of fun at first, but then they are a lot of work. Seems they are looking to be taken care of, want more of a mommy than a lover. Conversations get more sparse after a few years. And it makes you feel old when you go to reminisce and realize, for instance, that he was in diapers when you were enjoying the bicentennial.


Oh!!! Did not think of that!!!surprised

buttons's photo
Tue 06/29/10 10:03 AM

In my experiencce, much younger guys can be a lot of fun at first, but then they are a lot of work. Seems they are looking to be taken care of, want more of a mommy than a lover. Conversations get more sparse after a few years. And it makes you feel old when you go to reminisce and realize, for instance, that he was in diapers when you were enjoying the bicentennial.
laugh laugh laugh this is so good! and true!! I had a BBQ last weekend... well beforehand I was reading some of my schoolwork papers i turned in in 1976!It was a paper i wrote when i was 13... was written about my dreams for my future... said all the things in it that i wanted well one of them came true... so i was shocked it said i wanted to own a corvette...so i was kinda tickled that one of the things came true... well i whipped it out at the BBQ and shared it with everyone... know what he said? "geesh look at that date!" I wasnt even born yet!rofl rofl

ADiamond's photo
Tue 06/29/10 10:04 AM

call him... talk to him on the phone.. then go from there if you have things in common go meet him then... he may be so gross on the phone you wont even want to meet him lol... you never know


I am going to text him today since, I know where he works and his hours today...he hinted that he worked all week!

Maybe, we will talk after he gets off, who know...the least I end up with is a friend, right?

bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

no photo
Tue 06/29/10 10:05 AM
Well beauty and class go together and U definatly both!!! I have had a couple relationships of ladies half my age and we had a great time, U both have to put it into perspective of what the future brings and the realizim that long term is probobly not gonna be there!!flowerforyou

ADiamond's photo
Tue 06/29/10 10:11 AM

Well beauty and class go together and U definatly both!!! I have had a couple relationships of ladies half my age and we had a great time, U both have to put it into perspective of what the future brings and the realizim that long term is probobly not gonna be there!!flowerforyou


Thanks!!! Well, we will see...blushing

buttons's photo
Tue 06/29/10 10:12 AM

Well beauty and class go together and U definatly both!!! I have had a couple relationships of ladies half my age and we had a great time, U both have to put it into perspective of what the future brings and the realizim that long term is probobly not gonna be there!!flowerforyou
so mikey i have thought a lot about this.. is not a guy or gal you date your own age at risk for a long term relationship either? im sorry but seems to me this day and age its all so disposable anymore and many treat it that way... young or old! id say yes 20-30 yrs ago this may have been a factor.. but not these days..chances with someone your own age are no different than chances with someone 10-20 yrs younger.... unfortunately im sorry to say... but that is JMO

writer_gurl's photo
Tue 06/29/10 10:13 AM

Go out with him...It might be fun:tongue:
If you don't feel comfortable with the date then you can send him back to his mommy:wink:

buttons's photo
Tue 06/29/10 10:16 AM
what is considered long term these days?..i see people call 6 months long term..? to me its not.. but to some it is... is 1 yr long term? i mean where do u draw the line?