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Topic: Got kids?
Queene123's photo
Sun 06/27/10 11:07 PM
Edited by Queene123 on Sun 06/27/10 11:14 PM

How many of you have been married and divorced and now have kids and find it hard to find a date?


i have been married. divorced for over 20years
and i have 2 kids and 3 grandkids

i havent had a problem dating even when i was a single parent when my daughter was little, i met my son dad when my daughter was a little over 2yrs old and he claimed her as his.

there was one time i had to go down to support inforecement about getting a paper on my son dad this was much later down the line after we had split up. and the funny thing is the paper showed my ex hubby as my daughter dad, and while i was looking at the paper i told child support you have the info wrong, for there was no way he could had been my daughter dad for he would had been what 14, and i didnt meet him untill he was 18yrs old...LOL!! it was just funny to see that wrong info on print..


there was this girl i went to school with she had her daughter when she was in her early 20s and then she got pg again with her 2nd child while she was pg with her 2nd she met her husband and he was there during her whole pregancy and claimed actually both her kids as his. i dont know if he legally adopted them. but they he took responsabilty of being there dad



my daughter had her son at 14(2months before she was 15) and had her 2nd child at 17, the day before she graduated and she graduted one yr early.. and yes my grandkids have the same father, they were together on and off for 10yrs and they got married a little over 4yrs ago and a month after they got married is when she found out she was pg with her 3rd they were having problems from the beganing.
before they even got back together or even considered marriage she had several bf and one bf that she had, he had a young son. she didnt have a problem. and the guy she seeing now has a young daughter
any how her marriage split up right before there first annerversary(same amount of time i was married) and she been divorced about a yr now....

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sun 06/27/10 11:15 PM


I don't care, I like kids..I don't have any. What I don't like is the moms introducing me to her kid I never knew about at 1am in her apartment, butt naked.


noway Are you serious???!! What kind of mom does that??!!!mad
REALLY what kind of woman do you date? slaphead

msmyka's photo
Sun 06/27/10 11:28 PM

Don't have them or want them (kids) and never been married. I don't have a problem with guys who do have kids as long as they don't want anymore (from me!)

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Sun 06/27/10 11:29 PM
I'm going to marry myself. blushing smooched

Queene123's photo
Sun 06/27/10 11:34 PM

I'm going to marry myself. blushing smooched


wow if you marry yourself. .then you surely wont have any problems by not having any kids.....:tongue:

freeonthree's photo
Sun 06/27/10 11:44 PM

Ok......I'm not scared to post that I'm a single mom. I have two kids. It probably does scare most men off........of course I don't introduce my kids to men. Hell I don't know.


Wow ! A built in family ! What a great deal ! I think thats a plus myself smokin

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Sun 06/27/10 11:53 PM
Edited by looking645 on Sun 06/27/10 11:53 PM
Wow ! A built in family ! What a great deal ! I think thats a plus myself

*Yes and I is guarenteed never to cheat on me. Thats why I loves me.

:heart:

freeonthree's photo
Sun 06/27/10 11:55 PM

I'm going to marry myself. blushing smooched


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z06ygbACTrU

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Mon 06/28/10 12:01 AM
Edited by looking645 on Mon 06/28/10 12:03 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z06ygbACTrU

Amen brother! Now there is going to be a double marriage for me.

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