Really, what do you think? I have been on here for about 2 months and I've only got messages from the over 60 crowd and a few gay guys. I'm not not gay, I never will be, and wrinkles are not sexy to me. Please be honest, and you can be as mean as you want, it don't really matter to me.

I don't really see any problems with your profile. You are being honest about your expectations and that is always good. Some people might find it kind of harsh that you are not interested in anyone else that doesn't fit your description though. You've got to be willing to get to know people to find someone to love, sometimes you get a good surprise from people you don't expect.
Good luck. I hope you find what you want.
xxx
Amanda

Hi hun! (j/k)

Some of us been here a lot longer than that, try years.
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Still no crush..just a bunch of friends, no complaining there, but as you can see, still single and looking.

I can say being a regualr here in the forums will make you more open to meeting people and having cahnces to meet a special someone.

I went on one date from someone on here. It wasn't good. If you want to meet someone local. Get out of the house and go do something.

Thanks AmandaRJ, I guess I'm being a little picky, but I just would feel like I'd be settling, and I'm too young for that. Honestly though, I don't really care too much about what she looks like, I just want to really connect with her.

By the way, let me know if your ever going to be in Michigan, and I'll try my best to make sure you never want to leave.

Thanks Chet Hammerton, I mean markc48, I do get out every once in a while, but I'm not really into drinking or partying, so it's difficult for me.

I dont drink either, Have you ever had a lady say hi to you ? And what did you do ? I think I know what you did.

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Tell us !!!

Welcome to Mingle

Consider adding more pictures. You don’t look very friendly or happy in the one you have now.

Over all your profile is negative: “waste of time”, etc, but you are better than most in that you at least attempted an essay. Try to eliminate the negative words and go for a more buoyant tone.

Remember, you get out of dating – especially online dating – what you put into it. Are YOU proactive? Join the forums to meet active members.

I recall you posted in another thread about all the ladies being “grannies” on this site. Many of the ladies took exception to that including me. Not all of us are grannies or over 50 years. If you only troll the profiles you will have little to no success and insulting the members will really get you no where – and fast.

This is the best social site on the web.

Yes Chet, I have had my share of women, even almost got married. My point was that I just don't drink and don't really like even being in bars/clubs, because of the stall beer smell and the people that can't control themselves once their drunk. Every time I did go a fight would start, I'd almost alway end up getting invalved, and... let's just say I'm not Chuck Norris.

Thanx for the input MelodyGirl. I'll try, but I really wasn't trying to be negative, just honest. I have been on other sites and I have wasted my time with it. I'm not really smilling in that pic because I'm not happy, that's why I'm on here. I know, you get more fly's with honey, or where ever that saying is, but I'm tired of pretending. I'd rather not even have a pic on here and just have my words be what sparks the flame, but I tried that too already on another site and everyone thought I was some butch chick, not kidding. Perhapse I should re-write my profile, I guess I was a litle pissed off while writting the original. The thing is, I don't have much selfconfedence left, and I never liked talking about myself to begin with.

You realize that any negativity you harbor can not only manifest into something more ominous but the problem will also bring you down socially and in dating.

You will sink lower and lower into an abyss of anger and loneliness. Soon enough you will wake up 30 years later and comprehend you have wasted a lot of time.

Pull up your big boy pants now, slap a smile on your face and “fake” your way through until you beat the blues.

Here are some tips I posted on my business website regarding positivity:

1 - Always look at the bright side. Stop your mind from allowing you to think about negativity and difficulties.
2 - Think of solutions; not problems.
3 - Listen to relaxing, uplifting music and read inspirational blogs. The music doesn’t have to be corny Pan-Flute music as most people assume. If Sevendust makes you smile then crank it up!
4 - Watch comedies that make you laugh
5 - Always look at what you have accomplished rather than what you haven't

Have fun in life and I wish you well in dating too!

OK, how do you like me now?!?

humm what are you complaining about?

no offense.. but if i was even 25 i would be scared you dont even look 18 yet sure you got your age right?

women.

ok fine wanna go a round while i complain about men?

Yes I'm sure that I'm 28, soon to be 29. You can come by to make sure though.

Dude you are an unemployed ex-game addict -- not exactly a turn on last time I checked. Add something to your profile that shows you having FUN! If you really like hocky it should be spelled properly on your profile. Put some real effort into it and you will get a response.