Like Harrison Ford said in "Six Days/Seven Nights."


"You know what a woman needs to do to turn a man on? Show up. We're guys and it's that easy."





On a more personal note, I like a woman that looks like trouble from a mile away.

Oh and I totally respect you both for your opinions & preferences. Actually I think it's great when you realize it's not your thing, and don't have them for obligation sake and then either neglect, abuse or abandon them. That is despicable. I wish those who did would find out ahead of time they tooo are not 'into' children.


I just think the word "breed" sounds like a term for animals .. since I do love children it sounded very awkward in terms of creating them

It just struck me funny

I'm glad you found it funny. I do mean it "tongue in cheek".

Having children to me is awkward – and strangely enough unnatural - so when I say "breeding like animals" that's how I see it.

I grew up on 20 acres. Animals breed and if we didn’t control it with sterilization – breeding got out of control. I see this problem with people too except people are supposed to have more common sense and cognitive reasoning.

We both have respect for different lifestyles - and we can giggle at each other. OMG - does that make us "mature"??? *eww*



Back to Myka's list!

Mingle - what turns you on??

how are normal guys supposed to compete with that?


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They are called Ferrari's

i said normal.

the closer you get to the center of the country the larger the midsection of the men, on average.



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Just means more of us to love, little skinny guy like that, they could lose him in the shower.

There is a reason this guy is posing in the picture and not a mingle2 member. Those of us here are 'normal'...well in the way that your using the term anyway. That's why were here and he's not. Were all a bunch of average Joe's and average Joan's.

If I got offended, being called 'normal' would offend me...I strive to not be 'normal'.

all i'm saying is if this is what it takes to get a woman started through visual means, i'm never going to get that engine to turn over.


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There's always tequila?

ah yes, alter your appearance by imparing her visual receptors.



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They do say the old methods work the best.

Maybe for some women 'he' would be what it takes. Personally, to me he looks like a child, has no chest hair, which I prefer and is probably so conceited and arrogant that 5 minutes of conversation with him would make me vomit. I'm pretty sure 'he' isn't what it takes to get EVERY woman's engine started....

I live in California and the guys look similar to Travis in terms of style. The closer to SoCal a person gets the better in terms of great bodies. Plus, I live in a gym as my career. I see a lot more of this type than not. This is a fairly close example of normal to me.

This in no way describes his personality or intelligence. This is "The Superficial Thread" remember! Read Myka's first reply.

As you said, different parts of the country yield different types of people. It's all subjective.

Roaming, he is not skinny. He is fit. If he were skinny you wouldn't see muscle definition.

I don't like skinny guys but I also don't like average to heavy either. He is Goldilocks' porridge to me - just right!

Opinions, right? We all have 'em. I'll bet there are at least 50 women on this site that thinks Travis is not attractive.

Some girls like fit guys...some girls like fat guys....some girls like rich guys...some girls like poor guys....and on and on and on.

What is normal really? Is it was society chooses to be normal? No...normal is how you live your everyday life. Normal is being comfortable with who you are, regardless of what the TV says, or what some random female down the street says. Normal is what ever you make it out to be....if you dont like it, you have the option to change it.

He is one type that some prefer...like Melody said.
It's not for everyone and anyway this IS indeed the superficial thread.

preference and chemistry..it's a beautiful thing

Yes, Mister OMGYouAreExtremelyFit! Congrats on your fight training. You look awesome!

Diversity is also a beautiful thing, right Goddess?

Great smile, strong chest, a quick wit, throw in a big rough pair of man hands and I'm a goner.

I prefer younger women, not little girls. But I fit better with younger.

Smart, not long thoughts on the meaning of life, or discusions on war and peace, just good inteligent yaking.

Witty and funny make me drool, and drooling makes me laugh, till it's time to clean it up....A smile and a laugh are priceless.....

I desire and lust for a passionate woman, that is confident and a challenge.....A little friction, creates heat, heat creates fire, and fire lights up the bedroom, the kitchen table, the stairway, the backyard, the floor and the chandelier.

MMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, women make me drool.