Topic: Women and men on dating sites
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Sun 06/20/10 08:07 AM

i dont nudge or anything first


You don't even send emails? How come?

msmyka's photo
Sun 06/20/10 08:09 AM
Edited by msmyka on Sun 06/20/10 08:09 AM

I've been getting WAY more views, emails and nudges lately, guess the new pic is a winner LOL
(Aproximately 30 views, 3-5 emails, 10ish nudges per day)

I don't use the mutual match function at all but I will occasionally search for guys in my area to see if there is anyone new in my area.


I have friends from all over so I don't restrict who can email me by distance. Although my profile states that I am not interested in dating outside of the country I still get emails from India DAILY frustrated


The local emails I get are usually from the kind of guys I would NOT want to date and have obviously not read my profile to find out they're not "it" slaphead

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Sun 06/20/10 08:15 AM
Edited by singmesweet on Sun 06/20/10 08:16 AM
I will occasionally search in my are for the same reason.. to see if there's anyone new. However, most have not been seen in more than a month. If their profile is really interesting I'll still contact them, though. Some reply, some don't.

There's really no point in mutual match. Even if I get matches, they don't respond to emails. So I've given up on that.

I do get some emails from local guys. Unfortunately, most are the ones who write "hi" and then run out of things to say soon after.

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Sun 06/20/10 08:30 AM


i dont nudge or anything first


You don't even send emails? How come?
cuz im shy lol

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Sun 06/20/10 08:45 AM



i dont nudge or anything first


You don't even send emails? How come?
cuz im shy lol


If you're too shy to email, how are you going to actually meet someone? Aren't you going to be too shy then, too?

unsure's photo
Sun 06/20/10 08:54 AM
WOW I thought I was becoming popular when I have 5 or 6 looking at my profile per day. Then I am shocked when I receive 4 or 5 emails and a few nudges, how do I rate? HMM I guess I am rather boring after all :tongue:

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 06/20/10 09:55 AM

I will occasionally search in my are for the same reason.. to see if there's anyone new. However, most have not been seen in more than a month.




sounds like my story.

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Sun 06/20/10 10:01 AM
I get a few new views everyday and about five emails a week from people I don't know. Most say things that don't require much of a response so I respond with a kindly "thank you very much for the compliment".

The majority of emails and nudges come from the people I know and care about. I have searched my local area and haven't found any people that I would want to get to know better. But if I did, I would send them an email.

irisheyes79's photo
Sun 06/20/10 10:02 AM




i dont nudge or anything first


You don't even send emails? How come?
cuz im shy lol


If you're too shy to email, how are you going to actually meet someone? Aren't you going to be too shy then, too?
dunno

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Sun 06/20/10 10:17 AM
What is a dating site?whoa

silly's photo
Sun 06/20/10 10:21 AM
I get a few views a day and some e-mails.I don't always answer the e-mails,some are just dirty old men or dirty way to young men.frustrated and sometime i get that they want to talk online.most times I don't but sometimes I do.Like yesterday I did,seems to be a nice guy,and so cute to,so will just have to wait and see.not in a rush for anything.Just enjoying being friends and having a good time flirtydrinker :banana:

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 06/20/10 08:30 PM
Well I've had 5 looks since I switched to the summer blue dress but before that maybe once a month. Only nudges from a couple of friends and same with emails. I was going to say its been about 3 months since anyone tried a mutual match but I had a 22 year old pop up today. I have only had on email in the past month saying there were new people in my area.


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Sun 06/20/10 08:35 PM
Edited by buttons on Sun 06/20/10 08:42 PM
i dont know... i get nudges everyday pick one and ill go count lol! i get more when im on here longer though.. nudges i nudge back one in 15 so im thinking the guys must be less.. i get them mostly from strangers.. i never counted them maybe 8 a day.. sometimes up to 20 close guess.. 6 nudges today... been on here 30 min?.. one nudge back to someone i know

buttons's photo
Sun 06/20/10 08:36 PM
Edited by buttons on Sun 06/20/10 08:56 PM
as far as views i looked a few days ago at about 6 days in a row.. they range from 26-36 a day the average was about 32 a day in those 6 days..ive got 50 full pages of views that show in the last month i dont know if it goes past 50?laugh so i dont know how many are on each page.. or if they all show.. for whatever that means.. i dont pay attention to it.. cause many are in stealth mode as well...i just dont bother to erase them

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Sun 06/20/10 09:01 PM
Views? Maybe one a month. That is okay, I wouldn't want to get a big head and all.:wink: laugh

buttons's photo
Sun 06/20/10 09:03 PM

Views? Maybe one a month. That is okay, I wouldn't want to get a big head and all.:wink: laugh
and to note..... he made me count lmao!!!!!!! outta curiosity when he told me that...

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Sun 06/20/10 09:19 PM
Yeah, you got one pretty good there kid!laugh laugh laugh :wink:

Goofball73's photo
Sun 06/20/10 09:54 PM
My profile scares em all away. It is effective!:thumbsup: :laughing:

buttons's photo
Sun 06/20/10 09:57 PM

My profile scares em all away. It is effective!:thumbsup: :laughing:
love that pic u have up.... handsome..flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Sun 06/20/10 09:59 PM


My profile scares em all away. It is effective!:thumbsup: :laughing:
love that pic u have up.... handsome..flowerforyou


Ummmmmmmmm....Buttons. You are blowing my cover. grumble laugh