Topic: What's wrong with my profile??? Please help
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Fri 06/18/10 01:41 AM
Since I signed up on mingle2, my profile has been viewed a couple of times but that's it. No one has contacted me, so what's wrong with my profile? Why doesn't anyone want to get to know me? I just don't get it, people tell me I'm good looking (I think I am), I'm friendly, kind, warmhearted, sensitive, honest, easy to talk to about anything, fun, funny, and very considerate and conscious of the way other people feel.

Please help, with each day that passes with no one messaging me, I feel a little more deflated, so to speak.... I'm going to update my profile with what I wrote above to see if that helps, but I'm not to hopeful.

Thanks for the feedback, people...

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Fri 06/18/10 01:46 AM
Sounds kinda cocky. Also there are a million profiles like yours. Little personal info and a lot claiming that you have the looks. Not every woman is after a visual heart throb. Put something in there about you. Your likes and dislikes. Include some quotes from your friends. Let the people looking get to know who you are. And if you want it to be mainly just about your appearance then include a full torso shot. Let them see what you look like without the little mask over your face.

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Fri 06/18/10 02:03 AM
I agree with Ambian, if your loking for one night basis: show the goods (PG stuff of course). Or if you aré looking for a relationship (serious or not) : share info, meanigful info. Avoid all the false promotion and you shoud be good.



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Fri 06/18/10 02:59 AM
lol.. "claiming that you have the looks" That just sounds funny to me... I'm gonna change that. It's coming across the wrong way I guess. I don't think I have "the looks", I think I'm just totally normal and average looking. That's it. Anyway, thanks guys. I think I've made some good changes based on what you've said. Feel free to let me know what you think now.

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Fri 06/18/10 03:53 AM
you could just piss in the street like I saw some classy individual do tonight that will get the women flocking to you, you'd have to beat em off with a stick

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Fri 06/18/10 05:46 AM
First off, why are you waiting for people to message you? Why aren't you contacting others?

Second, you don't have a good picture up, which may be a reason people are not messaging you. Don't say others have said you're good looking. Put up pictures so people can see for themselves.

Third, your profile says you're looking for an intimate encounter, which is another reason people may not be contacting you. At the bottom of your profile, you state you're looking for dating. Perhaps you should change what you're looking for at the top to dating.

Take out anything negative in your profile. The negative part you have now can also be preventing others from contacting you.

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Sun 06/20/10 01:13 PM
I like what Emily said, but have one more thing to say. Your screen name. Not saying you can't beleive whatever you do, but people right off are going to think you are a bible thumper and thats a big turnoff to many. Unless of course you want to attract those who are interested in that sort of thing. JMO.