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Topic: warning to ladies
willy_cents's photo
Mon 06/14/10 08:06 AM
:laughing: Just a little warning to you ladies...If you live in a very small town like I do, be cautious about what sites you join, and what pics you put up.:laughing: On one of the banner ads on the rt side of the mingle page, just saw a lady from here. I recognized her so I clicked on itrofl She had a rather, or should I say quite, explicit pic on there.drool She is married and I know both her and her hubby quite well. I wonder if I am going to look at her whenever we meet, in town, at church, etc without visualizing the pic or busting out laughing. Do y'all think I should bring it up in conversation with her or just silently LMAO? What would you ppl do? open to suggestions.rofl

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/14/10 08:08 AM
Oh I would definitely call her out. She's the one taking the chance by putting it up there so she'd better be strong enough to take the heat.

Unless her husband knows and doesn't care, I feel for him. Poor guy.

"BUSTED" smokin

hmlover's photo
Mon 06/14/10 08:09 AM
Take the high road and leave it alone... let somebody with less tact bring it up. You know, this wouldn't only apply to ladies...

willy_cents's photo
Mon 06/14/10 08:11 AM
bad thing is, how many ppl just rt click, save pic as....That stuff is out there forever, and you cannot get rid of it. could be embarrassing when your kids/gkids say"Is this you gma?"laugh

willy_cents's photo
Mon 06/14/10 08:12 AM

Take the high road and leave it alone... let somebody with less tact bring it up. You know, this wouldn't only apply to ladies...
Oh I definitely agree,men too. Just happened to be a lady 'cause they don't show us guys pics of dudes.
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BettyB's photo
Mon 06/14/10 08:23 AM
hey willy,you can get into enough trouble on your own,no need to borrow others laugh laugh
MYOB and leave it aloneflowerforyou

no photo
Mon 06/14/10 08:25 AM
Why are you just warning ladies? I'm willing to bet men do the same thing as well.

DACRAZEDCAMARO's photo
Mon 06/14/10 08:36 AM
If i knew them i would tell them but if i don't then i'm not too sure.. I usually mind my business..

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 06/14/10 10:59 AM
eh, I'd just mind my own business..it's her life, not mine.

Live and let live...

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:19 AM

:laughing: Just a little warning to you ladies...If you live in a very small town like I do, be cautious about what sites you join, and what pics you put up.:laughing: On one of the banner ads on the rt side of the mingle page, just saw a lady from here. I recognized her so I clicked on itrofl She had a rather, or should I say quite, explicit pic on there.drool She is married and I know both her and her hubby quite well. I wonder if I am going to look at her whenever we meet, in town, at church, etc without visualizing the pic or busting out laughing. Do y'all think I should bring it up in conversation with her or just silently LMAO? What would you ppl do? open to suggestions.rofl


Take the high road and mind your own business. winking

It would be disrespectful, childish and drama-like to "out" someone. A lot of people have secrets but it's not the business of a stranger or friend to open that wound.

Small towns are notorious for gossip activity; don't be a statistic. tongue2

Seakolony's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:22 AM
I would leave it alone especially if I lived in a small town. To each their own.

newarkjw's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:22 AM
I would have to f!ck with her a little bit........smokin

Duffy's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:24 AM
hey this is america. she has a burning desire to let it all hang out.
in each person, there is some hidden desire to prove or disprove the fact we/they are beautiful/handsome/alluring.

cyberspace can do all that....until some snitch finds out and catches up with the fantasy.
pitchfork
shutup and when u c her smile. for you know her secret.
my advice for an old lady for what it is worth.

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:25 AM

Why are you just warning ladies? I'm willing to bet men do the same thing as well.


I agree drinker

Discretion is the better part of valor but people will be people. It's not 1955. winking

Live and let live and don't judge. Who cares what other people do anyway? Some people act so pious and goodie it makes me ill. I don’t agree with a married person posting on a dating site – and as far as the picture – for a single person that’s no big deal.

This type of situation is much ado about nothing. (not to the OP necessarily but "get a life" comes to mind). laugh

freeonthree's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:33 AM

:laughing: Just a little warning to you ladies...If you live in a very small town like I do, be cautious about what sites you join, and what pics you put up.:laughing: On one of the banner ads on the rt side of the mingle page, just saw a lady from here. I recognized her so I clicked on itrofl She had a rather, or should I say quite, explicit pic on there.drool She is married and I know both her and her hubby quite well. I wonder if I am going to look at her whenever we meet, in town, at church, etc without visualizing the pic or busting out laughing. Do y'all think I should bring it up in conversation with her or just silently LMAO? What would you ppl do? open to suggestions.rofl


I wouldn't say anything to them. Good to know what there up to though. People never stop surprising us huh ? Ya just never know...

newarkjw's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:41 AM
Ya'll are no fun.............smokin

eklectek's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:44 AM
that person made their bed...let 'em lay in it. :tongue:

bedlum1's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:49 AM
tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:54 AM

Ya'll are no fun.............smokin



spock hey now .. I AM smokin

I think he should NAIL HER AZZ to the wall :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/14/10 11:56 AM

tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own



Actually it's exactly the opposite. It's why people die in the streets in NYC or CT, because people DO JUST mind their own business.

Walk the other way when someone is in danger or threatened.

Puhleeze .. people have become focused on ONE thing .. staying out of anyone else's demise. whoa

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