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| Topic: SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 17 | |
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You know , once upon a time I would have believed that. Being in the military showed me otherwise. I have seen it thousands of times , the loud and obnoxious guys tend to get the good woman out there and convert them with just smooth talk alone. Not to say you dont want a calm and collective guy like myself , just you would be surprise.... But I'm not giving up. Never do , never will. Don’t get your head stuck on absolute ideas. You are only exposed to a small percentage of the entire dating population. If you are cynical now – you will be in trouble as the years move forward. Why would you care about a girl who is attracted to jerks or as I now call them “The Situations”? That stupid guy is the epitome of “jerk” and any girl who has her head on straight would not fall for that dog and pony show. He is about as dumb as the come and looks like a cartoon character with his “ab” show. Don’t be “that guy” and you won’t attract “that girl”. I love military guys but they can be flawed as well. Use common sense and you will be fine! 
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msmyka
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Sun 07/25/10 02:27 PM
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You know , once upon a time I would have believed that. Being in the military showed me otherwise. I have seen it thousands of times , the loud and obnoxious guys tend to get the good woman out there and convert them with just smooth talk alone. Not to say you dont want a calm and collective guy like myself , just you would be surprise.... But I'm not giving up. Never do , never will. I could say the same about all the good guys liking crazy chicks but really sometimes people are different when they are in a relationship. It's funny when I look back at the type of guys I've dated, I find that they have all been great friends and lousy (emotionally unavailable) boyfriends. What you may see on the outside as a "good woman" is probably more like lacking in self confidence if shes with a guy like that. |
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God I'm still single Hard to beleive huh! Lol  oky i beleive.. but what about verginity!!! Ummmmm what about it I'm 51 was married 4kids a little late for that don't ya think?
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You know , once upon a time I would have believed that. Being in the military showed me otherwise. I have seen it thousands of times , the loud and obnoxious guys tend to get the good woman out there and convert them with just smooth talk alone. Not to say you dont want a calm and collective guy like myself , just you would be surprise.... But I'm not giving up. Never do , never will. I could say the same about all the good guys liking crazy chicks but really sometimes people are different when they are in a relationship. It's funny when I look back at the type of guys I've dated, I find that they have all been great friends and lousy (emotionally unavailable) boyfriends. Lol well good thing is I am not the type to go for the crazy chicks. I actually enjoy females that are a lot more at my pace and are a lot more collective of there thoughts and passions. Had a couple rough bumps in past with the general party types and learned the hard way that , they are definitely not for me or worth the trouble they usually bring. I mean they are good friends , just for a relationship wise....they were more of a thorn then anything...keep you thinking too much. |
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You know , once upon a time I would have believed that. Being in the military showed me otherwise. I have seen it thousands of times , the loud and obnoxious guys tend to get the good woman out there and convert them with just smooth talk alone. Not to say you dont want a calm and collective guy like myself , just you would be surprise.... But I'm not giving up. Never do , never will. Don’t get your head stuck on absolute ideas. You are only exposed to a small percentage of the entire dating population. If you are cynical now – you will be in trouble as the years move forward. Why would you care about a girl who is attracted to jerks or as I now call them “The Situations”? That stupid guy is the epitome of “jerk” and any girl who has her head on straight would not fall for that dog and pony show. He is about as dumb as the come and looks like a cartoon character with his “ab” show. Don’t be “that guy” and you won’t attract “that girl”. I love military guys but they can be flawed as well. Use common sense and you will be fine! Your positively and logicaly correct. But for some odd reason , despite what females know or think they want...during the given situation they will want things they usually say they wouldnt want. I dunno, but I keep my eye out time...maybe I will find somone with a level head and yeah! there are plenty of girls who love military guys for some odd reason, that I will not understand. |
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You know , once upon a time I would have believed that. Being in the military showed me otherwise. I have seen it thousands of times , the loud and obnoxious guys tend to get the good woman out there and convert them with just smooth talk alone. Not to say you dont want a calm and collective guy like myself , just you would be surprise.... But I'm not giving up. Never do , never will. I could say the same about all the good guys liking crazy chicks but really sometimes people are different when they are in a relationship. It's funny when I look back at the type of guys I've dated, I find that they have all been great friends and lousy (emotionally unavailable) boyfriends. What you may see on the outside as a "good woman" is probably more like lacking in self confidence if shes with a guy like that. “Nice guys” are just as much of a turn off as jerky boys. I don’t want a manufactured romantic who cowers and whines because he can’t find a good girl. It boils down to mutual attraction, timing, and self respect. Anything else is inconsequential. |
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You know , once upon a time I would have believed that. Being in the military showed me otherwise. I have seen it thousands of times , the loud and obnoxious guys tend to get the good woman out there and convert them with just smooth talk alone. Not to say you dont want a calm and collective guy like myself , just you would be surprise.... But I'm not giving up. Never do , never will. I could say the same about all the good guys liking crazy chicks but really sometimes people are different when they are in a relationship. It's funny when I look back at the type of guys I've dated, I find that they have all been great friends and lousy (emotionally unavailable) boyfriends. What you may see on the outside as a "good woman" is probably more like lacking in self confidence if shes with a guy like that. “Nice guys” are just as much of a turn off as jerky boys. I don’t want a manufactured romantic who cowers and whines because he can’t find a good girl. It boils down to mutual attraction, timing, and self respect. Anything else is inconsequential. Good point. Well its never a total failure, just I know what I want and what I definitely donnot want is somone who cannot be real with themself. I want a woman who can express themself and not need a couple shots to have a good time or need to date the loudest guy in the park to present themself. Just somone who can enjoy life and can make the best out of everything and can share a bit about what makes them , "them". |
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dunno dont care
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All qualified candidates are encouraged to message me.
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All qualified candidates are encouraged to message me.
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im single....but focusing on myself and what i need to accomplish
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All qualified candidates are encouraged to message me. 
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single
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I am gonna call and ask! Lol
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single but my hand dont turn me down
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does it matter..it ain't gonna help setting up the queuee
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still single....
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Though it sounds ascetic and may be prune..
 But I don't think anyone is gonna jump up and say..."Hello Mr.Nice guy lets hang out...becoz ur cho niche".
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It's really true. As a friend I don't care how stupid you are but in a relationship everything matters. I guess you need a person, who loves to be around the way you are.
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