IMO you should have kicked the guy out, as well as the ladies. You are stronger than a girl, regardless of their training, it is in our DNA to be the 'protectors' we have been designed to fight and hunt.

You could have restrained her and escorted her out of the club, what I disagree with is your comments whispered in her ear. If all it takes to tick you off is a SMACK by a girl than you need to find another profession. Also she is a client...and I'm sure that you do report to a manager when she requested a manager your egotistical remark of 'i'm the law' was childish to say the least. She after all is a CLIENT, and you are providing a service, that service being that she can come to a club and feel safe. Obviously she didn't feel that she was safe under your care and took it into her own hands. Given the way you reacted, I'm sure her instincts were right on the mark. However, she did break a rule, it was not your job to lose your cool, and 'teach her a lesson' on men vs women, it was your job to enforce the rules...which sounds like it would mean escorting the ladies, and the gentleman out of the club. Which you failed to do, to have an ego boost and 'prove' yourself a man who is quote 'tougher' than a supposed 'tough chick'. Get off the roids, it seems they are effecting your professional judgemnent, and your ability to create a safe environement.

so your the reason 90% of all women are battered, well i`ll stick to eat`n mine plain..

this whole thing just makes me resent the fact that i am weaker than most humans. but this is why i avoid certain places, having suffered bad experiences.

oh and if she is trying sue you, you just gave her an excellent case against you by admitting that it was premediated on your part, and showed intent based on anger.


Lastly you are a promoter, not a bouncer, it is not your job to touch any clientile.....just thinking you may want to delete this topic because if she sees it your *** is done in court.

Ahhh, the beauty of Mingle...once you place it on here, it is here to stay more often than not.

I agree with Isaac totally.. I think your whispers to her and your own actions are no better than the gals.... JMO though and we all do make mistakes..

I have met a lot of men like this, and, why, yes! I was clubbing in the OC. Very offensive person and bad at his job. I'm with Sloth on this.